Posted: 01 February 2013 at 6:36am | IP Logged
Does clothes reflects persons personality or is it behavior? Does one appearance in a party or picture say things about a persons character.
But irony is we all judge people from their looks n appearance at a first glance. Here in the show- When Giselle dressed up in her model attire both females Dimpy n Debina and even males Amar n Karanveer tried to make her feel uncomfortable by silly remarks and flirtatious attitude. Giselle very well knew how to behave that's the reason she didn't responded them back on the first two days. But if a person continuously try to put her down she has to give back. Even Dimpy said on second day that Giselle should to stand up for herself but when she did Dimpy felt offensive.
Same thing happened with Ragini n Nigar. On a very first day Ragini set up her mind that Nigar is a bad n fake person and she cannot get along with her which she did entire last week. Inspite of Nigar's constant efforts she failed to win Ragini's heart as Ragini already considered her as a bad person.
My experience- I live in New York and in 2008 I went to cruise party with my hubby. I do not drink or smoke but in that party I tried wine when my hubby insisted and clicked some pictures. I was wearing nice cocktail dress as it was also a dress code. Last year in December I went to my hubby's uncle- aunty place in Virginia. We went out with them in Virginia beach and imagine what happened. They took us to a bar and his uncle asked me for a drink, which is ok. But when I replied him that I do not drink he said to me that you do and he has seen my pictures on Facebook. He tried to insult me by saying that I'm lying but the matter of fact is he already became judgmental about me. Even if I was drinking then also I will never drink anything in front of them as they are elder to me and I have to respect my elders. My hubby's uncle actually wanted me to drink so that he get the opportunity to say bad things about me to my hubby's parents. Believe me guys it really hurts when you don't do anything and people think you did.
One moment or appearance or dress style cannot decide a persons character. We must give a person few chances to understand them before becoming judgmental about them.
Edited by sheenug - 01 February 2013 at 7:12am