Originally posted by JanakiRaghunath
I don't find Gizelle to be the culprit, but I do think it was pretty immature of her to make digs on Dimpy's marriage. I have worked with domestically abused women before and they are very insecure people, for a good reason too. We cannot point fingers at Dimpy's insecurity because despite her faults, she has
suffered from marriage to Rahul. Her insecurity is to a point understandable, and Gizelle could have insulted her dressing style or her looks if she wanted, but to say Rahul was "a random guy" was pretty low class. One thing I cannot stand is to mock a lady who was domestically abused.
I don't think any of the ladies behaved well yesterday. Neither Dimpy, Debina, nor Gizelle were 100% innocent. Amar himself said both Dimpy and Gizelle behaved immaturely in their fight. Neither was bigger nor smaller. Both behaved equally low class. As for Debina, she should have supported both or neither. Her fault was that she took Dimpy's side. But Gizelle was definitely not innocent either. All three ladies of this show have behaved pretty poorly.
I agree to most of what you said but not all of it. I sincerely feel Dimpy provoked Gizelle and thats why giz gave it to her. If dimpy has enough guts to make fun of others and pass low class comments, she should as well be able to stand it herself.domestic abuse, is nowhere related to how you behave with others. On the contrary i feel insecure people would indulge more in talking behind the backs rather than openly insulting anybody.
And i do agree with Giz's question, when these gals agreed to come on Swayamvar, rahul was a just a random stranger, so how do they agree for it. Infact i would have asked that myself..what has Dimpy achieved of her own without Mahajan surname. I dont think she even m anaged to get print ad.
Am not supporting Giz or anything but Dimpy started it and Giz eventually played along.
Edited by stardust2011 - 31 January 2013 at 11:35am