Originally posted by polly_03pinky :
thanx for sharing.---------welcome colors asking our opinion on whether megha should forgive mohan or not ? .. i ask, forgiveness for what ? for losing addu or for staying away for 12 yrs ?
if she wants apology for losing addu, then i would ask her to go on a self-introspection first, coz if mohan is guilty for being careless and over-pampering then she's even more guilty for not doing anything to bridge the gap between addu and him. her marriage with mohan took place within two days of her confession so she didnt get time to convince her son, fine. but what after the marriage ? from addu's behaviour in the fbs, it was clear that he hated mohan the same way as he did before ..to the extent that he even called him sautela, which clearly implied that megha took things for granted and probably thought that addu will gradually accept mohan when in fact, being addu's biological mother and the experienced parent she was supposed to take the extra effort.
but if she wants apology for mohan staying away for 12yrs, then probably i would side her. no doubt her cursed words on that fateful night made mohan leave the house with a promise to return only when addu is found, even then there's no justification in his staying away for 12yrs. he could have returned within a few months. also, he could have contacted his family in these 12yrs ..which he didnt. no one told mohan to turn his promise into a " BheesmaPratigya " without thinking of it's consequences. no one achieved anything out of this promise , except inscrutable pain and sufferings, nanhi being the worst casualty of it. so forgiving mohan on this issue is gonna be a tough job.
thanx for the view