Originally posted by Hetp
Originally posted by Justlikethat1
The difference between the maturity level of these two couples and their want to be parents will become obvious going forward if this continues. There is a difference between really wanting to be parents versus, wanting to be parents only because you want to be like others. That is what is happening here.
What Jigar and Rashi are going through, a lot of couples do. But it is surprising that Rashi is tired so quickly. Vansh has been with her for just one day and she already is tired and grumpy..
Whatever happened to all that "I want to be a mother" rant now?
hey indeed as you have mention...want to be parents and want to be like others.
Parenthood cannot be forced...it has to be done all be your wish..likes...and by pleasure mind
also it is necessary to help your spouse in work ...why she will only work always...she also gets tired.
and also I was wondering the same...rashi got tired in one day despite of getting all help
you should not get irritate doing your baby work but also somewhere jigar is also to be blame...why rashi will do everything??Vansh is also jigar responsibility
and about "I want to become mother"rant...half stuff of getting benefits and all which urmi fill in rashi mind...and so she was ready to become mother.Again I wonder here...Are Raji ready to become Parents??
They were not Hetal. RaJi just went with the flow without thinking about consequences. The Modi elder who were sensible to begin with also did the same. They did not think about repercussions or about how these two who do not even know each other, cope with a child that is for all technicality not related to them
This is what I am afraid of.. i.e.. In RaJi's immaturity the child will suffer. Both will grow to resent each other and the baby if this continues. A long shot but still, a scary thought..
I agree about both the mother and father's need to be involved with the baby. And yes. I blame Jigar too. That is why I said it was a hasty decision. In the name of making Rashi happy, Jigar blew it