Posted: 31 January 2013 at 9:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anoo67
hi, sorry dont know your name.yes the character of zoya does piss me off.by the way do you live in india?if you did you would know that there are some unspoken rules for guests like there are for hosts too.maybe zoyas behaviour would be considered delightful in new york(i dont know for sure) but it is totally inappropriate in india.if you notice it is made very clear that asad and not dilshad is the head of the familydo you piss off your host?secondly, dilshad does not have a problem with zoya because zoya does not create problems in her life.the phone incident imo was avoidable.you cannot make your host the butt of everybodys joke.and zoya did tell him to leave the house when he refused to let her apply the paste.he had to remind her that it is his house that she wants him to go away from.the problem is when people come from a different culture and refuse to accept that there is any other way of living.since she has got asad into trouble he has taken the pains to explain that to her.and if you think zoyas laughing it off is justified phir main kya bolun?i liked zoyas character when the show began, but now she just comes across as a very insensible person.i can understand thirteen year olds enjoying her behaviour but maybe iam too old to enjoy the same.i would have preferrad the female lead to be strong ,sensible.clumsy is fine,impulsive is ok , sometimes silly is also acceptable, but insensible, totally doesnt work for me.asads character ,though rigid, conservative,and judemental is preferable than zoya.i did not mean to offendyou and if i have iam sorry.
Hey, Anoo...- no you didn't offend me at all.
And thank you once again for replying.
I have always lived in India.
Zoya's jiju did not seek Asad's permission to let Zoya live there. Nor did ammi ask her son's opinion when she invited Zoya over. Asad was unaware of this house guest his ammi had invited- that itself proves who is the head of the house. Zoya is phoophi's guest and not Asad's. So long as phoophi does not have a problem with Zoya and actually tries to correct Asad' soimpression of Zoya- I think we will be safe if we see Zoya from Dilshad's POV: Not yours, mine, or any one else's...just see how phoophi had accepted Zoya as she is.
I feel Zoya is not going to change one bit. Asad will end up accepting her AS SHE IS: Will you be able to accept them as a couple?