Share-Your-Story

 

I am going to talk about one of my best friends story here today.  Even though I ensure her that she took the right decision, she is still very confused and lost.

 

This girl is 25 years old and has a Masters degree from a good university and has a really good job.  About 5 months ago she told her parents about someone that she was in love with.   (Both the girl and the guy are sikh...the only differnece is that the girl is Jatt and the guy is a saini.  But Jatt and Sainis both farm land..)   So when she told her parents, her dad called her a prostitute, sl*t, Who*e, and a b*t*h.  She tried to beat her up and even slapped her once (NOTE**  this girl has never date in her life before.  This is was first guy she ever liked. She stayed away from guys cause she was sexually abused by her cousin for 3 years when she was 9 and then again abused at 16 by her dads friend...which led to depression and stuff)  So her dad broke her laptop and phone (which she paid for).  He them pretend to take "pills" to pretend like he was gonna kill himself.  The next few days she was constantly harassed, called bad blood, bad insect and stuff.  One night, someone tried to open her room door around 3 in the morning.  She got scared and broke the net to the window is she needed to jump out and save her life. Then suddenly her dad started banging on the door after his failed attempt to break the door.  The next morning she saw that she car tires were flat.  (after 2-3 months she found out that her dad had taken a knife and poped the tires). 

This contiuned on for three months and one day her dad told her he would have killed her if they were in india and if she did not have a brother and sister. Shocked and extermely hurt and becoming depressive, she talked to her manager.  Her manager toook her from the home and put her in a shetler.  She stayed in the shelter and started on medications. (She was diganosed with severe depression and anxiety)  She currently lives with some relatives that are taking care of her. 

 

She can't seem to foeget anything and move on.  She wants to marry the guy she is in love with and he has been constantly supprotive.  He told his whole family about the girl and his family has accepted him.  She has lost complete trust in her family members.  (The whole family now seems to be playing mind games with her.  They come and sit around at the relatives house and try to force/blackmail her back to the house.

 

She blames herself alot and seeing her like this hurts me alot.  I honestly believe that she did not take a wrong decision and encorgae her whenever I can.

 

 

Its amazing how india is becoming an openminded country but people in USA, Canada and UK still have that thinking. 

this is the last video of my friend who showed his love dedication to his late wife through suicide video...