Originally posted by sherma
Originally posted by Ashlaika
The question is: staying in a marriage
with someone who you do not love just because that person is having your
child or marrying to someone you love and makes you happy first and
Well, a healthy and stable environment is what makes a child happy. Arjun and Ovi cannot do that and does not have that to provide a child with.
As for Onir and Purvi, his past is a mystery to us so their relationship is filled with uncertainties. 1. It is uncertain if his past will come back to haunt him and 2. its VERY uncertain when the child is here if he can love that child as his own. Purvi will always love that child cause she loves ARJUN and that child is part Arjun and also a blessing from God conceived in their love for each other. It is very uncertain if when the child arrives and all of Purvi's attention and tea making days are behind her due to the child's wants and needs, will Onir still be there for him/her. Will he take out any jealously on the baby? Will the baby remind him of Arjun? This also makes their relationship unstable and uncertain.
I strongly believe that if u are loved and u love in return that makes a happy and successful marriage and environment. Such an environment makes a child flourish and succeed. Once a parent or person is happy... that child also feels that love and happiness. AND if the marriage like the one Ovi and Arjun has continues to be inhibited with jealousy and other negative factors, the ppl around u will also feel that and will never grow or be happy.
So for me it will always be love the person u marry and be happy with - that feeling and blessing is contagious to the ppl around you.
seeing a couple wgho luv each other married is a gud thing,but u cant deny not all the couple in luv marry each other
here arvi had chance to marry,but they dint for their reasons,
arvi married other people
being wid one who luvs u is a blessing,purvi shld feel blessed
and onir cares for the baby more den purvi,
onir is not the one who feel insecure cause of arjun
and purvi has strted feeling for onir,
and abt onir past,i think cvs are playing safe,
they r waitng for trp and see where will tehy like to go
and not all pre arrange marriages are successful and have happy ending. there is always the unfortunate few.
with respect to Onir caring for the baby, I would wait until the baby arrives before passing judgement. Why do you think Onir is not or would not feel insecure of arjun? Why has he started to rub purvi's feet and wants to kiss her and all of that, do you think he will continue to love purvi if she continues to treat him this way? he too will walk
Oniris not God, he is human like anyone else.