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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sherma

Originally posted by Ashlaika

The question is: staying in a marriage with someone who you do not love just because that person is having your child or marrying to someone you love and makes you happy first and foremost?

Well,  a healthy and stable environment is what makes a child happy. Arjun and Ovi cannot do that and does not have that to provide a child with.

As for Onir and Purvi, his past is a mystery to us so their relationship is filled with uncertainties. 1. It is uncertain if his past will come back to haunt him and 2. its VERY  uncertain when the child is here if he can love that child as his own. Purvi will always love that child cause she loves ARJUN  and that child is part Arjun and also a blessing from God conceived in their love for each other. It is very uncertain if when the child arrives and all of Purvi's attention and tea making days are behind her due to the child's wants and needs, will Onir still be there for him/her. Will he take out any jealously on the baby? Will the baby remind him of Arjun? This also makes their relationship unstable and uncertain.

I strongly believe that if u are loved and u love in return that makes a happy and successful marriage and environment. Such an environment makes a child flourish and succeed. Once a parent or person is happy... that child also feels that love and happiness. AND if the marriage like the one Ovi and Arjun has continues to be inhibited with jealousy and other negative factors, the ppl around u will also feel that and will never grow or be happy.

So for me it will always be love the person u marry and be happy with -  that feeling and blessing is contagious to the ppl around you.


seeing a couple wgho luv each other married is a gud thing,but u cant deny not all the couple in luv marry each other
here arvi had chance to marry,but they dint for their reasons,
arvi married other people
being wid one who luvs u is a blessing,purvi shld feel blessed
and onir cares for the baby more den purvi,
onir is not the one who feel insecure cause of arjun
and purvi has strted feeling for onir,
 
and abt onir past,i think cvs are playing safe,
they r waitng for trp and see where will tehy like to go

and not all pre arrange marriages are successful and have happy ending. there is always the unfortunate few.

with respect to Onir caring for the baby, I would wait until the baby arrives before passing judgement. Why do you think Onir is not or would not feel insecure of arjun? Why has he started to rub purvi's feet and wants to kiss her and all of that, do you think he will continue to love purvi if she continues to treat him this way? he too will walk

Oniris not God, he is human like anyone else.

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:12am | IP Logged
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So my belief is two people who love's trust and understand each other should get married. And i think its high time Arjun and Purvi reunite so their child can have its biological dad's love. Ovi can go to mars for all i care.

Or to Pluto...far far away...
Wait a minute ...Ovi might object...
OVI: What, Tum bhi? You are not even going to send me to a PLANET??! Waaah!!

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:20am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by jonelle


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<font size="2" color="#003300">So mybelief is two people who love's trust andunderstandeach other should get married. And i think its high time Arjun and Purvi reunite so their child can have its biological dad's love. Ovi can go to mars for all i care.</font>


Or to Pluto...far far away...
Wait a minute ...Ovi might object...
OVI: What, Tum bhi? You are not even going to send me to a PLANET??! Waaah!!


Ovi is floating like a ballon in sky but you never that AK might leave the Chota Balloon.

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sherma

Originally posted by peachesnplums

Just posted this in another thread too --

Fairness needs to win somewhere...what message will they send if they show obsessive blackmailers and shady background people calling themselves free getting away? ArVi deserve each other for the love and understanding they share, and the child they are going to have. 

Otherwise, PR is glorifying evil.

How come this sudden character change in Ovi - baby hate to baby love? She's confused and unreliable it seems about which way to behave...(or the CVs surely are)

Her recent change of behaviour doesn't absolve her of the harm she tried to cause her own child sometime ago or her deal-making blackmails.

So how about giving true love a chance CVs, how about doing things differently and sparing ArVi of this separation misery? How about reuniting them?
so wat abt arjun-ovi child,doest he deserve a father?
fairness needs to win-a person who luvs sum1 unconditionally needs to b luved back(onir)
and abt ovi-she needed an assurance,wich she got from onir words,the fact punir are married and purvi carryng onir baby made ovi felt lighter and happy
and the famous arvi eyelock arenot there dese days since onir entered mumbai
 
 
@green I ovi and arjun separate that does not mean ovi's child will loose his/her father.  The same argument can also hold for purvi's child (like it or not -onir is not the father)

@red you are right as is the case with arjun/purvi. they love each other

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sherma

Originally posted by jdronamraju

there is nowhere said that Onir cares for the baby MORE than Purvi..yes, he is a nice person so he cares... but MORE??? isnt that too early to say?

as far as TRP's, if they remain higher this week, then it is probably bec. of Punni-Mittal then Smile.. They can be declared the lead pair from now on..until next week... kidding !!
i agree this week trp belongs to punni-mital track,
arvi as well aspunir dint contribute more last week
 
i said onir cares for baby mre,cause purvi is behaving careless,
wich 7mth pregnnat women will travel by train,
wich 7mth women will not eat food properly and run like mad to reach hospital to get sum1 else admitted
onir wasnt only concern for purvi but also teh baby,whn he knows he is not the fther of teh baby
i find ovi-purvi bth carelss as mothers
 
ppl do worst than this in reality. i you cannot afford a taxi u have to take bus/train. helping ovi is just like helping another human being. if i am pregnant and someone else is in a worst state than me, should I just sit around and leave that person when i can render assistance?

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:29am | IP Logged
@red in the prev. post 
Arjun loves Purvi  unconditionally
Purvi at the very least loves...

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:30am | IP Logged
Purvi's Saccha pyaar wala dialogue redefines Arvi's unconditional love.

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 11:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by pari87

So in order to re-unite really immature and juvenile ex-lovers, now jeeja-saali, Ovi's child should die? I don't know about this new weird concept of true love, but I think, a child is above all kinds of true love. And if you have taken your adult step by having a child in this world, then better keep your responsibility to him/her. Arjun-Purvi re-unite, walk over their spouses and even the other child and I wonder what sort of true love that will be an example of? 

Itna hi pyaar tha toh, why did Purvi choose aai over Arjun? Next thing you know, another hurdle in Archu's life, she will give up Arjun once again if someone else comes with a proposal! How is Ovi unstable and Purvi stable? Both are unstable in that sense. How is Arjun any stable? He decided to marry Ovi, consummated his marriage with her, but still dreams of saali cum ex-lover, and will later give up his baby to be with his love? LOL.

Saccha pyaar is above ruining other people's lives, giving up on a baby, making a family suffer through their immature decisions. Glad, I am not part of this era of saccha pyaar then . MY POV strictly.
@bold I dont understand why you feel that arjun will be giving up his baby to be with purvi and to besides, isn't purvi carrying his child too. Does arjun have to remain with ovi to be the father of ovi's child? he can be a very good father without having to put up with ovi and her tantrums. there are many many marriages where two parents separate and they both still take care o their children


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