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Posted: 02 February 2013 at 4:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RDlover1

I dont understand where does this DURATION OF LOVE thing comes from??? Like we love our parents since birth and after getting married or falling in love,start loving our life-partners..The duration of love to our life-partners will be always less than that to our parents...Does that mean we should love our life-partners less than our parents???If YES,then PURVI is right in choosing her AAI over ARJUN...And if NO,then why is this comparison between 6 months ''AFFAIR'' and childhood friendship coming??
exactly.. arjun treatd ovi only as friend and never felt anythng more than that... v dont knw with whom v fall in love arjun came to india and fell in love with purvi... duration doesnt matter for true love. what he didnt feel for ovi in 18 years felt for purvi within 6 months this indicates arjun ovi were never meant to be... and had ovi really understnd arjun very well then she would have never separatd him from his true love all she wantd was to have arjun all by herself and  never cared abt arjun's feelins. if she had really cared arjun she would have seen pain in arjun's face. . love happens in a movement and last forever . . arjun purvi's love is true and true love never fails

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Posted: 02 February 2013 at 5:23am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by RDlover1

I dont understand where does this DURATION OF LOVE thing comes from??? Like we love our parents since birth and after getting married or falling in love,start loving our life-partners..The duration of love to our life-partners will be always less than that to our parents...Does that mean we should love our life-partners less than our parents???If YES,then PURVI is right in choosing her AAI over ARJUN...And if NO,then why is this comparison between 6 months ''AFFAIR'' and childhood friendship coming??
exactly.. arjun treatd ovi only as friend and never felt anythng more than that... v dont knw with whom v fall in love arjun came to india and fell in love with purvi... duration doesnt matter for true love. what he didnt feel for ovi in 18 years felt for purvi within 6 months this indicates arjun ovi were never meant to be... and had ovi really understnd arjun very well then she would have never separatd him from his true love all she wantd was to have arjun all by herself and  never cared abt arjun's feelins. if she had really cared arjun she would have seen pain in arjun's face. . love happens in a movement and last forever . . arjun purvi's love is true and true love never fails
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Answer to this thread: ArVi relationship is more important as there is love from both the side. 

Better to end a relationship once instead of taking it too long with loveless life.

It doesnt matter onir is good or bad or sudden efforts by ovi to work on her deal wala rishta but love is not there. Purvi cant fall for onir and of course no normal guy can fall for ovi.

Just going on and on with unwanted relationship just becoz ur husband is nice or becoz ur wife is pregnant is useless. 

For me ArVi forever.


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Posted: 02 February 2013 at 10:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ..aastha..

Answer to this thread: ArVi relationship is more important as there is love from both the side. 

Better to end a relationship once instead of taking it too long with loveless life.

It doesnt matter onir is good or bad or sudden efforts by ovi to work on her deal wala rishta but love is not there. Purvi cant fall for onir and of course no normal guy can fall for ovi.

Just going on and on with unwanted relationship just becoz ur husband is nice or becoz ur wife is pregnant is useless. 

For me ArVi forever.


i share the same view as yours.  get out of whatever relationship u are in if it does not make u happy. no matter what everything else will fall apart be it children, good husband etc.

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Besides, why is the assumption being made that Ovi can't be an excellent mother, why can't the Cvs excel Ovi's character, there is already indications that Ovi responds well to Arjun's attention.

the assumption is made bc ovi has shown thru her actions that she does not care for the child. she had shown to be drinking putting the child's very life in danger. she may be changing now but that does not take away from the fact that she put her child in such danger. and plz dont say that it was bc arjun was treating her bad or she was under stress. that is ridiculous. most mothers will go to arms length to protect their child. ovi may be emotionally unwell but that is no excuse to put her child in danger, a choice she made, and only she made.
Sorry, I guess I have to disagree...I can't accept the fact that Ovi took to driniking out of the blue just like that, not to mention or forget the fcat that Ovi is Canadian raise and should be well accustomed to social drinking. Inspite of that, she wasn't ever shown to drink being 1) in CAnada 2) a successful model.
 
So, her taking to drinking is cause Arjun pushed her into it by ignoring her and day dreaming about his Saali. No wife can accept that easily. Oh btw, although she did put fwd the deal, the second time around It was Arjun choice in starting a life with her (even first time was his choice). No wife can take it that she is preggo and her hubby fantasize about his saali. I think we all should be blessed with a Purvi in our life, to understand what that means...am kidding...
 
So, Arjun has been responsible for Ovi's drinking and that is again only proved by the fact she changed totally with the slighest of his attention. She needs him to support and which wife doesn't especially during pregnancy. So, Arjun need to be the hubby in the real sense and not be chauvanistic and say, it is his only duty to provide her material comfort...he needs to provide Ovi with all - emotional support to begin with...

that is the most ridiculous statement ever, ovi is a grown woman who is about to become a mother.
most mothers go to the end of the world to protect their child, not put them in harm, ovi may have been under stress but there are many pregnant women out there who are under  more stress than ovi (domestic violence, forced marriage, homeless) yet they dont go around drinking bc they are under stress. and the fact that ovi changed with the slight attention from arjun shows how immature she is and incapable of being a mother. wat happens when child is born and arjun and ovi have arguments. is ovi actions supposed to be based on how others treat her. u should be able to prioritize ur childrens well being first regardless of what is going on. nobody put a gun to ovis head to drink. and if we are going to absolve purvi for drinking bc arjun was treating her bad, then we absolve arjun responsibility to give a second chance bc purvi pushed him into it. we can't have double standards just bc its ovi. and ovi married arjun knowing he was in love with purvi. she knew this and yet wouldnt give him the time to get over it.  is 6mnth enough time to get over the love of her life? ovi may have been in pain but so was arjun. who was arjuns emotional support at that time? no one but he didn't resort to putting his child in danger bc he was emotionally unwell. lets hold ovi responsible for her actions bc it was her choice. r we going to say every single time that ovi makes a decision under stress that it was due to other pple? no bc guess wat everybody makes decisions under stress but at the end it is their decision and only theirs.  i think u are blinded by ur love for ovi that u fail to think objectively. im done with this conversation. go read about the effects of drinking while pregnant and then maybe you'll understand why ovi actions are not only cruel but inhumane.

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