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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 7:39pm | IP Logged
Why is it not possible to forget a six month old affair and start a new life with a childhood friend ...an impossible thing ? Why , something special about the girl who dumped after having sex?


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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 7:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000

Why is it not possible to forget a six month old affair and start a new life with a childhood friend ...an impossible thing ? Why , something special about the girl who dumped after having sex?


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When he didn't fall for his childhood friend in those 18 years which he spent with her,howcome do we expect that he will fall for her now,when he is clearly in love with someone else?

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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 8:08pm | IP Logged
Lol... Hw can u expect a person to forget about the relationship that was honest to God and in which the person gave everything? Arjun considered Purvi to be his true love. Six months in nt enought time and nt to mention his wife is a wack job who he never felt anything for! We juss cant switch off our feelings for a particular persona nd turn them on. With tym definately heals evrything but six months is no way enought to get over a break up for any normal person. Everyonez expecting too much for Arjun... Seriously!

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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 8:11pm | IP Logged
Why does he have to fall in those  18 years only ? Many a times we take the girl next door for granted and run after others who only use for their benefits .  Cannot he fall after the girl he ran after thinking she was a rare pearl he found turned out to be a royal user who used him only for herself and her mom ? 

Many guys come to their senses after getting  a royal jhatka . 

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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 8:17pm | IP Logged
I dont understand where does this DURATION OF LOVE thing comes from??? Like we love our parents since birth and after getting married or falling in love,start loving our life-partners..The duration of love to our life-partners will be always less than that to our parents...Does that mean we should love our life-partners less than our parents???If YES,then PURVI is right in choosing her AAI over ARJUN...And if NO,then why is this comparison between 6 months ''AFFAIR'' and childhood friendship coming??

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I agree with kools that being a friend of Ovi from 18yrs that signifies she knows Arjun more than Purvi but people are depending upon the love which was honest till engagement of Arvi after that it went to another level n it was expected from Purvi to have sex before a day of marriage.
PS: Even friendship turns out to be great realtionship of two best friends who know eachother from past 18yrs.

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Posted: 01 February 2013 at 8:43pm | IP Logged
Relationship with parents is something beyond duration it is a blood bond .

Blood bonds cannot be broken . We have no choice there , perfect or imperfect we have to accept our parents .

Choice of a life partner is exactly what it is ...a choice . No choice in the parents though .

That relationship can be broken or forgotten or started over , it is not janam janam ka rishta as seen in serials .

Children again r blood bonds . Thats the reason divorces r between husband wife but neVer between offspring and parent or between u and ur children 

Divorce of Arjun and Ovi is a welcome idea but starting afresh after a 6 month old affair in this day and age when even the marraige has not taken place isn't ? Why ?

If Purvi has chosen her mother over Arjun , its from her point of view . Fine , forget her then . Let her live with her Aai .  But how long will Arjun moon about her and call this mooning 'love' ? Is is that impossible to get a grip and move on ?

Constantly there is an argument about how impossible it is for any normal guy to switch on and off emotions just like that etc but

declaring 6 month old love as janam janam ka pyaar is not abnormal 

and i do see break ups in three month or 2 month duration too in this day and age so this story puzzles me

the impossibility that they state puzzles me


i have suggested Ovi divorce and go to Canada but i feel these guys r  doing too much and if Arjun does not mind the dumping at the wedding altar may be he should get married to Purvi and be sacrificed again and again ? For 'true love' ? Maybe thats the fate he likes? Well , why not have it then , fine with us .


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Posted: 02 February 2013 at 3:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gaurav_ankita08

I agree with kools that being a friend of Ovi from 18yrs that signifies she knows Arjun more than Purvi but people are depending upon the love which was honest till engagement of Arvi after that it went to another level n it was expected from Purvi to have sex before a day of marriage.
PS: Even friendship turns out to be great realtionship of two best friends who know eachother from past 18yrs.
Ovi obviously did not know arjun in all those 18 yrs. Had she known him she would have not strike a deal with her sister to marry him knowing fully well that heis in love with purvi and not her. she would have know up front that he would not love her back. what ovi and arjun shared before engagement was friendship and ovi's perceived love, had it been for love, arjun would have never even look at purvi twice and think that he love her. Love is not something you decide, its something that happen without you even knowing it. U dont just look at someone and decide that i will love them.

Many friendships are better when it remains at that stage, the only way it gets to love is if the two person fall in love unknowingly like purvi/arjun.

You point about purvi with the sex before marriage, i would offer no comments.

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