Posted: 29 January 2013 at 1:33am | IP Logged
A VERY SENSITIVE TOPIC- PLEASE DECIDE FOR YOURSELF
I am here, first time creating a topic in Debate Mention, because I need an answer.
I am feeling really so much frustrated right now. But I suggest, read it, only if you think you are matured enough to take it and if you are not much sensitive.
This is probably the most disgusting thing I have ever heard of, so thats why.
Guys, mere ghar ke baju me ek ladki rehti he. Usaka naam Purva he aur bahot khubsoorat ladki he. She is 16 years old. And hamare aur usake ghar ke bich family jese hi relations he. She is my younger sister's best friend and looks upon me as an elder sister. Really very nice, humble and sensitive girl.
And a girl who never ever in her life thought bad about anyone. But from about two years, she is completely shaken up. Mene esa newspapers me etc suna tha, but never ever expected in my life that I will see such a thing.
Jab wo 14 years ki thi, then her own cousin- her mama's son, tried to misbehave with her. Mama's son, means technically, jis ladke ko usne rakhi bandhi thi hamesha se, jise bhai bhai kar ke wo bulati thi hamesha, that very bhai misbehaved with her. How disgusting!
And if that was not enough, he brainwashed her and threatened her. She, the girl who used to be very intelligent and brave, her cousin, brainwashed and misbehaved with her or tried to at least
And she was so innocent, that she did not know how to react to it. By sheer senses, she pushed him always, but the limit was when, about a month ago, he literally tried to misbehave with her and it made her snap.
She ran away from house, taking just some money, food and clothes and without telling anyone she ran away, because her cousin was going to stay there.
And you know, they are gujarati and very conservative family, jo bhagwan se dar ke chalate he, and esi condition me rehene wali ladki, she could not even share this with anyone. Because she knew nobody would trust her. Bas 2 sal se andar andar, kese react karu esa sochke ghuntati rahi thi.
Ham sab ne bahot dhundhne ki koshish ki, but no one knew wo kaha he. Usake friends ko, kisi ko pata nahi. Usaki mummy ka to ro ro ke bura hal tha. Bhagwan ne thoda rehem kiya and thank god she called me. She knows ki me kisi ke bareme jaldi opinion nahi banati aur hamesha use samjha he to she called me and told me wo kaha thi and usne muje kaha ki wo mujse kuch bat karana chahti he, bahot important to me akeli usase milu. And I went to meet her. Abhi kuch din se me jo out of town gayi thi wo isi wajah se and she cried in front of me. Usne muje sari bat batayi aur itana royi he, itana weep kiya he. Seriouslly, she is a really talented girl and 2 sal se she was suffering like this. Her results were going down and down, wo kisise jyada milati nahi thi, sehmi sehmi rehti thi and finally she told me and weep karate karate mere lap me so gayi.
Now, I don't know ki me esi situation me kese react karu? Jo karana chahiye, wo he, us ladke ko sidhe police me de dena chahiye. For misbehaving with Purva. Par wo itani dari hui he apni conservative family se, ki kisi ko bata nahi sakti ye bat, na hi us ladke ko ignore kar sakti he as family functions etc me milana padta he. And wo nahi chahti ki usaki mummy ko ya usaki family ko ye bate pata chale jo ki bahot sensitive bat hogi. Technically, ek bhai ne apni behen ke sath... How disgusting!
She is feeling only a bit better now ki usne muje ye bata diya and mene use kuch galat judge nahi kiya he. But she is just so scared and I want solution for this matter. If anyhow you could help me.
Me abhi use leke aayi hu ghar pe and aunty ko jhuth bola he ki wo kaha gayi thi. I have handled the situation. And she is staying with me only. But I really want to know,
Basically, I want to know, ki jab hamare apne hamare sath esa kare, to hame kya karana chahiye. Mostly, you all are indian, to sab ko pata he hamari families kesi hoti he. Esi situations agar samaj me isake bareme sabko pata chale to bahot badnami hoti he. So, what is the solution in this kind of situation. I really hope, I get an answer from here. I'll really appreciate it.