Originally posted by jay_bpm
Im here with my questions , since you are studying psychology, i would like the answers to be psychological ones trying my best
Why people often get too much influenced by tv soaps and start to relate it to reality or forget its non- existance ? Mostly when we turn tv on, we want form of escape from our real life. These daily soaps started providing us alternative reality that is often quite enticing. They claim to portray perfect figures, ostentatious presentation and weird twists are appealing to many. Such shows in a way provide dream life for people. But thing is, they come 5-6 days a week. The shows are actually taking place in people's house so it is very intimate relationship so to speak. Many watch the show while eating, that strengthens the attachment even more. So it may simply start out by escape from daily life stress, it can open up as dream reality due to presentation and constant exposure to them can lead to strong attachment. Not being aware of this attachment is why people forget it's non-existence.
Why you think Richa Thakral coudnt find any other man than KC even after he is a father of two kids ? I have often said that Richa would fit cluster B personality disorders of DSM-IV. I am talking about Anti-social, Borderline, Histrionic and Narcissistic Personality disorders. It is not she couldn't find anyone, she doesn't want to. She WANTS Kunal, WANTS to posses him as she feels ENTITLED. If she was stable, she would have stopped after SINAL marraige, but that only triggered more chaos. Fact that Kunal rejected her, refused to make compromise for her but later fell in love with Siddhi like crazy that he would do anything, that only made her cycle so to speak more powerful. In simple words, ashe's nutcase and people should stay far far way.
specially Kc , he shoud stay away from her
Why heroisme is over rated in india ? my favorite question as I had so many dialogues on the matter It is about responsibility. Swami Vivekanand had said, Indians are slave due to their mindset. Until we break away or free ourselves from this mindset, physical independence will mean nothing. For centuries, India as culture has developed in ways that hinder independent thinking level. It was easier for British to rule for such long period as before that kings had ruled over the masses. We had very strict class system, belief in deity had taken form of superstition and words of authority figures or those considered intellectuals ruled for ages. Such arrangements produces followers who prefer to be told what to do and not ask any type of questions or reason. This still continues today to great extent. Indian educational system, does it strive to really educate or simply provide degrees? How many parents and teachers urge kids to develop independent thinking process? we Indian do not like to uphold responsibility as an individual or society as whole. When a hero emerges, he/she is taking up that responsibility for us. Hero is fighting battles for masses, thus releasing masses from any accountability. So it is due to inability to take responsibility, heroism is over rated in India.
Related to Parichay ( i want a real answer, not the one '' cvs forgot that ''
and the answer shoud be psychological
) this will be tough as CVs are not stable mind their selves
Why Sidhi loves Kc so much that she went to jail for him? Stared with very good question indeed. Now many would say it is in Siddhi's nature to put others before her and that's why she makes lame sacrifices. Well she gets really stupid when it comes to Kunal and she does love him too much. I do not want to completely dismiss her relation with Anand, but in reality it was not love so to speak. starting from day 1, it was apparent Kunal-Siddhi had major personality differences, some due to gender itself. But there was still a level of respect there. Kunal was gentleman enough to propose to Siddhi while others had simply asked her to do this for them, Raj, Kapil and even Shilpa. But Kunal proposed. Once they got married, passing through whatever phases, she came to know and understand real Kunal. As she put it during Raveena's sangeet, Kunal is like coconut. While they both had personality differences, both are very much alike on fundamental level in sense honest, very caring, willing to face consequences for their loved ones and so forth. As Siddhi saw changes Kunal made for her, she started falling heads over heel for him. Along the way, she also found Kunal always standing by her. Just as she had accepted Kunal the way he is, Kunal too accepted Siddhi fully. Kunal sure appreciated the mature independent Siddhi, but also pampered the child with-in her. Stood by her when needed, corrected her blunders and simply submitted himself to her. Now when she sees this man, her soul-mate putting himself in harm to for her; well she will do same for him.
well its debatable , falling in love with someone ar sacrificing ur life for that person has two different things , no ? you feel Sid would do the same if it was Aanand ? i think yes, according to me , its in her nature . it has also something to do with the environment in which she was brough up , i mean the lack of parental love , Kc gave her a family ( which she considered as hers ) so she felt obliged to do those crazy things for him. But i agree with what u said .
Why did sidhi still accept Kc eventhought she saw him in Richa's arms atleast two times ? again because their love is more powerful than other things. First time around, she sure questioned Kunal on the matter and Kunal had in a way confessed he is all hers. Whatever may take place, one thing Siddhi knows for sure is Kunal loves her more than life it self. Time after time we have seen Siddhi overpower Kunal and she too knows that. While it had hurt her to see Kunal in Richa's arms, fact he loves her matters more and allows her to forgive him.
Again , its debatable. there are woman who loves somone madly , still value their selfrespect more than their love. i have respect such kind of woman. I wanted sid to stand up for her self respect , which she didnt
why Kc ask his son to do his ( Kc's ) works ? actually ,there is no psychologically relevant answer for this. No 9 year old would be taking care of his father FOR YEARS. Only thing I can think of is, CVs attempted to show how Kunal was dependent on Siddhi for certain things, once she left; her Ansh took up her responsibility of looking after Kunal. But really, it is complete nonsense that 9 year old is taking care of his father and he too asks him to do his work
well i never liked the way Kc asked his son to bring chhai for him etc it s a father's responsibility to make his child enjoy his/ her childhood.
naa i dont have problem , i want them to remain this way
Why Abhay Diwan is extremly obsessed with AC2 ? your answer is in question, he is obsessed. Obsession often do not have any reason so to speak. The obsession usually serves some purpose for individual. With Abhay Diwan, we know little about his previous life. He lost his family and it was presented in ways that he might have been responsible for it. He is also the kind of person who feels entitled to have certain things. As long as he has what he wants, it'a all picnic. But once he feels threatened, we see mask of sanity come of. He sure felt empty after losing his family and Sulekha presented him with AC2. So he started building his life around him and now doesn't want to let go of him as he feels entitled to posses AC2. another nutcase.
Ok now parichay forum related questions ( you can't put your name here oh man
who do you think the most
sweet member ? Rosh am i sweet all the time ?
Short tempered ? it is defined based on how fast an individual would react to situation. being on online forum, I do not know exactly if someone is reacting right away or not...
naughtiest ? Salmanbhai
Helpful ? more or less all have helped me when needed so can't pick one
Straight forward ? Bhavi
creative ? Suhani due to shayaris, siggies and VMs
Honest ? Shweta
Biggest Sidhi fan ? JKR fan Rosh yipee
Biggest KN fan ? Nidz Deewani .
Biggest Kc fan ? Rani
Biggest Ss fan ? Rashmiji
You are choosen to play a pivotal role in Parichay , which character would you like to play ( except KC ) ? and explain why that charater is essesntial to the show ? I say Thakral. He has been most consistent character through out. He sure is entertaining but also has specific purpose whenever he is involved. Majority of times, major change in Kunal or SINAL's life, or where the show might go, Thakral always has hand in it. By the end, his involvement always brings something good.