Originally posted by tootyfruity
Do not try to compare Gauri with Anandi..Gauri has million times some better qualties than Anandi and vice verse...
Do I have to tell you how hard to become a doctor..who can know bettter than you my friend..Yes, Gauri loved to Jagya and for that love she had taken some decisions which were ethically wrong. But her professionalism and dedication, coupled with her analytical abilities were unmatchable.
Never forget it is the duty of a wife to ptotect his husband from other "teetlees" and Anandi failed miserably in that. Beforte blaming Gauri , point your finger at Anandi who could not prove to the expectations of her husband and put a "nath" on him. She let him loose and go.
And she still did not learn from losing Jagya ..she was just at the edge to lose second one..thank God,..it were we Ansh lovers who prayed to God that CM did not courrier her back to haveli..
You are right there is no comparision between Gauri and Anandi.
Gauri despite being given an opportunity to get herself educated inspite of having so many choices she chose to marry a man who belonged to someone else.
As for her education what good did she do the world with all the education that she got?Chose to work in a hospital which paid her a lot of money.Did she ever help
Becoming a doctor is no big deal but what you do with your medical degree is the one that decides whether you are a good doctor or not.She may have topped the class but her education did not benefit anybody except her.
Did Gauri ever love him?For that matter did he ever love Gauri?They only fell for the outer images.When the outer images melted they did not like what they saw in each other.
Anandi used her capabilities and intelligence to help other people brighten up other people's lives.She tried to forget her problems in life by helping other people solve their problems.
When she finally got an opportunity to get herself educated she made sure others also got the benefit of education by starting a school for girls and adult education classes.
Guari is only bothered about her own progress. Anandi wanted her entire village to walk on the path of progress along with her.
As for Anandi letting go of her husband - no self respecting woman will ever fight for a place in her husband's life when he himself has given away that place to someone else.
When she knew that Jagya was hers she called a mahapanchayat to get him back from Gudiya/Gauri..
When she knew that he was not hers anymore she did not cling on to him she just moved forward and made a life for herself.
Shiv very well knew what he was getting when he married her.He will soon be getting what he wanted from her.