Kools, you are so right in your post! Sunny-Teju and Archana's very random absurd advise. She is an absolute fail of a mother if you ask me. Has no sense of understand what is good for her children and nor has any insight into their lives, futures or problems. Lives in her own la-la land. No wonder, her kids were taken away from her at their earliest and she only got the great kaand lady Purvi as daughter to raise. One can clearly see where Archana's sanskaars have taken her and how the other children are in a much better place by having been raised by granny Savita.
I loved Arjun-Ovi scene. I loved the simplicity and transparency with which Ovi told Arjun she will choose to wear her parent's gift and later wear Arjun's gift. THAT is how a married couple works. Upfront, straightforward honesty about emotions or feelings or anything. Ovi, besides her inability to look into the past and realize that the deal was a mistake, has since marriage been the person who has surrendered herself completely to Arjun. She lives for his love. I have simply grown to love Ovi's character and the stark opposite that she is to Purvi's character. I just want Ovi to stand up for herself when needed, that is it. I don;t want her to be a weak wife so entangled in her love for Arjun, that she takes herself being sidelined easily. I want her to give Purvi a good fight whenever it comes to the useless ARVI re-union. Today the whole baby talk was an ominous insight into her baby's fate.
It is sad that instead of showing Ovi to just realize her past misdeeds and apologize to her husband for a clean slate life here on, they will show her paying for her mistake by losing her baby. It is simply stupid and cruel, all in the name of yet another mahaan sacrifice by Purvi ( who will offer to give up her child).
Purvi astonishes me every episode. The cruelty with which she disregards her parent's gift for saving her sorry butt, while ONCE AGAIN asking someone else to lie for her sake. This girl will stop at nothing. While Ovi was transparently honest about her intentions for her parent's gift, Purvi instead makes absurd facial emotions to show Onir what she would choose and then with a slight dampness states that Onir's feelings mean a lot to her, or whatever. I don't know why it isn't easy for her to confide in her husband and tell him the truth. Or for that matter, walking up to her mother and telling her the asanskaari deed of pre-marital sex and illegitmate baby with jeejaji. Her mother has hidden her butt and this time again, Archu won;t flinch while doing this again. So why not tell her mother and get the truth out, whilst promising her not to ruin Arjun-Ovi's marriage with this truth? If Onir has accepted her, she can pretty much tell her mom that this is my life now, but I wanted you to know the truth, but not anyone else because I want us all to move on now.
I think teh art of lying to the husband and keeping facts from him, she has prob learnt from Archu only. It;s a heritage passed down. All the lying, scheming and now selling off parent's gift, all to ONLY save her kaands and butt. It is no mahaanta, no tyaag and no one's bhalai except her own.
She simply boils my blood now on this show. Why don't they do away with her character, and the let the other move on? Redemption for viewers , truly!