Most of the members on this forum are young and have lot of dreams about future. I seriously don't expect them to give deep thinking to the present track. But those who are married and have kids or if anyone has lost one of their parents in young age can try to understand the feelings of BB, Ashu and Nidhi. Everyone have different destiny and as per their destiny each have different childhood, youth ,and older age.
No child wants to accept other person in place of their Mom
or Dad if he loses one. No child accepts his mom or dad having any companion.
We don't think about their emotional needs but only think about society. "What
will people say is the biggest fear we have when actually none of these people
come to help you when you are in need.
They only preach. To be honest my mom was just 37 when I lost my Dad but never
thought of what she wants. I did my best for her and so did she. But now I
understand that daughter is enough for a mother but not for a woman in her. I was conservative like Ashu!
I am grateful to the new generation for being so brave and courageous. My cousin came from USA with her husband having high fever and lost him in next 5 days. Her only daughter after six months looked for a match through internet. She knew her mom is an house wife and needs a support of a Man. She met the children of that person . The 3 kids arranged a meeting and got their parents married. They are living happily for past 7 years. I am so proud of my niece who will be getting married soon.
In KTLk BB is old and Nidhi is not thinking of getting him
married or involve him in an affair but just wants to reduce the emotional
burden, the feeling of guilt from his conscience . I am proud of Nidhi.
My nani had given birth to 9 children! I asked her how she could? She told me only for the first time your nana came with me to hospital. Rest of the times I went myself She said no one used to pamper us like now a days Husband takes so much care of a pregnant wife. She missed that in her life. But one thing I just can't forget. My Nani 75 yrs old 4th std passed woman told me" your uterus can have either fetus or fibroid." So we had kids and your generation is suffering with fibroid problems. The old people have their own logic and wisdom . Only if we care to give some time to listen to them, to understand them.
As you grow old you start analyzing your life , your achievements, your
defeats, your unfulfilled desires, your
mistakes. As you grow old your physical needs decline but emotional needs augment. This is what Is happening to BB and Nidhi is understanding it because of her broad
outlook and Ashu is
not .
The great secret that all old people share is that you really haven't changed in seventy or eighty years. Your body changes, but you don't change at all. And that, of course, causes great confusion.
I hope this track will be handled sensibly and maturely. Please share your views.
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