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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:38pm | IP Logged
Very well written and thought provoking piece as always JAMi!

In general, I firmly believe that a mother has the utmost right to be respected and obeyed (unless the order is to sin) by her children. This is not conditional; even if the mother is harsh and unreasonable, there is no other option but to respect her. A child can reason with her, but within limits of politeness and respect. I'm ofcourse speaking in the ideal sense. This is why I respect Suraj's character, as he is quite close to this ideal.

Now this may not seem to answer your question, but really it does. If every mother has the right to have dutiful children, then Bhabho too deserves an ideal son like Suraj.

As for the historical truths revealed by Babasa, I think there is another way to look at these. Why did Suraj lie about him failing in school? Isn't it obvious? He knew that if he didn't there is a high chance that Bhabho would not have agreed to sacrifice Suraj's future for the family's sake. This sacrifice might've been the right thing to do at the time, but a mother doesn't see right and wrong when it comes to her child; she only sees her child! It's true that she eventually found out about the lie, but it was too late by then. Also, she must've been more able to see that Suraj had taken the right step, as it helped the family avoid an even bigger crisis.

We also learned from Babasa's speech that Suraj has a history of doing what is necessary to avoid Bhabho's love for her son from overtaking the family's interests. Bhabho's love wouldn't have allowed Suraj to gamble his money on Vikram's shop, even thought it was in the family's interest. Bhabho's love wouldn't have allowed Suraj to waste his hard earned money on loser Mohit, even though it was in the family's interests. And it was her love for Suraj that allowed for Chavi's marriage to be approved. This also explains Suraj's decision to hide night college truth from Bhabho. He must've thought that this was in the best interests of the family, but Bhabho's love for him would not permit it to happen. And like always, Bhabho will understand when the truth eventually comes out, by seeing the positive results. (IMO, the ideal time for revealing the truth would've been when Sandhya successfully learns to manage both house and studies; but I guess this wouldn't have been ideal for TRPs.)

Anyways, let me end here. I think you're being a bit harsh with your lovely Bhabho. Smile But I can understand your position. Bhabho has to eventually understand to put more trust in Suraj, and not suffocate him with her love. Let's see if she goes in this direction Day Dreaming

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@Samah Puttar:- Why only hybrid aunty?Shocked. I think all the ladies of senior gang(including SaMir aunty) here are so Cool and beautiful by heart.Heart. I wish every kid get a mother like them n kids like SaMi.Approve.

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ami_dabh

@Samah Puttar:- Why only hybrid aunty?Shocked. I think all the ladies of senior gang(including SaMir aunty) here are so Cool and beautiful by heart.Heart. I wish every kid get a mother like them n kids like SaMi.Approve.

Senior gang di khair/zindabaad.Dancing


Oye mind reader ! I just logged in to edit my comment and write that! Day Dreaming

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:43pm | IP Logged
Oh, and this was the BEST COMMENT EVERRR!! 

Originally posted by Superman.

Hi.
This comment is reserved for Superman. He will edit it as soon as he comes home from fighting for justice.

Thanks for your co-operation,
- Superman.

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:50pm | IP Logged
@all those who keep jumping I'm angry with Bhabho- read the post again. Also read my replies on first page. Through this thread I'm only asking your opinions, by pointing some facts that I observed in yesterday's and other old episodesApprove.. I've not told my opinion yet.LOL If you find it difficult to read, then don't read. But please don't write anything without reading..Big smile
I still do love her.Hug I can't write and stick it on my forehead.LOL
now let me read and reply you all..Star

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:04pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ami_dabh

@Samah Puttar:- Why only hybrid aunty?Shocked. I think all the ladies of senior gang(including SaMir aunty) here are so Cool and beautiful by heart.Heart. I wish every kid get a mother like them n kids like SaMi.Approve.

Senior gang di khair/zindabaad.Dancing

ROFL  You and your puttar are hopeless! D'oh  Senior gang will never let a gabro jawaan munda like me into their gang Disapprove

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:06pm | IP Logged
@all- you'll have replied sensibly. I'm happy for that. But I'm really sorry.. As I'm running out of time, I think I don't need to explain each of you what I wanted to say further since someone else has said it in more beautiful words. samir ji has said it well. I would like you all read his reply. Hope you all don't mind. I wanted a view like that from someone. So created this thread to know your opinions. I can't put it in a better way than he did.. Thats why I still love Bhabho.


samir ji I'm not at all angry on Bhabho.LOL How could I be? She is still so sweet and reliable even after all the harassments given by her life. Still there is a reason what makes me love Bhabho. I shall share it sometime later.
Thanks a lot for the right reply at the right time.Heart.Hug

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:08pm | IP Logged
@Samir - I got milk outta my nose when you wrote gabro jawaan munda Stern Smile giggling Zindabad

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