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Does Bhabho deserve Sooraj ???

Brahmaputra IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:35am | IP Logged
it made me think. I've always been on the side of Bhabho, until Baabasa opened up old truths. Now I should try hard for it. I am not sure how much I'll succeed also. I've never expected Bhabho to fall this down. I would say I shocked to death. Her image broke just like a mirror breaking. She very beautifully acted as matured, sensible and understanding, covering one exactly opposite one inside.
Basically Bhabho has no problem in mhaara Chchora telling lies. He left his studies telling a lie, he made Vikram's shop telling another lie, he educated Mohit telling so many other lies and cared Chavi telling again lies. Then she had nothing to worry at. But when he did it for his wife, its a mistake, a lie. How come?

Today I saw all three- Vikram, Mohit and Chavi standing with heads down. I don't know whether they were truly remorsing. Even Meena's head was down, looking for any laadoo that might've fallen down in aangan. But they looked as if they understood the depth of their mistakes. Still Bhabho's head stood up with all arrogance it had before. She didn't feel guilty at for making her son work like a slave for her family, her selfishness. Instead, she was emitting fumes like a volcano that is going to burst any second. She broke his studies, she keeps pampering him for forgetting his mother, betrayed him brainwashing his wife, always shouted asking the salary of carrying him for nine months in her womb,. She exploited her own son in the maximum ways she could. Still she wants his sweat and blood more. But for what? For family?
What family is that which is working on only one person's opinion?
A family is not just a combination of so many roofs and walls. It is built on relations and trust. When that brokes, it loses its meaning, it becomes only a big object made joining bricks with bricks, in which lives so many strangers who know each other.
What satisfaction is she getting from building such a family?

It was the day of Babaasa. I love him. Not only Maasa, he also knows how to lock Bhabho's mouth.. For the first time, she stood answerless. She knows she is wrong. Still she makes her eyes like two globes. But Baabasa has fallen in love with the same globes. So he doesn't care them at all. Babasaa knows when & where to stop his wife. He knows all drawbacks of her, still silently loves her and tries to rectify her mistakes all the time. So no wonder why my Sunny is what he is. He is no more a mama's boy. He is his dada's boy.

I really really loved this episode from the core of my heart. It worth a million more than thousand episodes together filled only with SurYa romance, for me.
The more I know about Sunny, the more I'm falling in love with him. He always carried everyone on his shoulders, walking over burnig coals. He is the gem of a man. If I will have such a son, I'll be ready to go upto any end for his aspirations.
Bhabho has beautifully did the betrayel spelling the name of her family, for her selfishness. I'm not forgetting her circumstances. But I still love her a lot. She is just blind when she is emotional. She doesn't know how to think with brain when she needs to do it with brain. She has fought all winds and wither of a lifetime harassment. She has never found the happiness she searched for. And she is trying to find it through her son. I do accept her wishes and dreams. But she could've allowed her to study further allowing him to work in the shop in times except his school times. I remember the day in which Sandy recieved medal from college, he said he was good at studies. How could Bhabho do it with him? I'm unable to digest this for the time being..
Does she really deserve to be his mother only for she carried Sooraj in her womb for nine months? I don't know.

Edited by June_Anne_Mary - 17 January 2013 at 10:33am

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:39am | IP Logged


u poured out very well bunny...agree with u...u said wt is right...well done...bunny...

but i was shocked who loved bhabo so much in this forum,created thread against her...she knew all but her ego and selfishness and one imp is possessiveness stopped herself to think abt past of u said,problems is not lie,to whom?(sandhya) is the problem...wt bhabhasa said was like nail on bhabo's head...pakka waiting for 2mw episode...

and one v all angry on sandy not speak up.sandy.Thumbs Up...but bhabhasa gave answer for that also...sandy pakka bahu for every MIL wish to have...

Edited by udnis - 17 January 2013 at 9:52am

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:40am | IP Logged

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RD.Dawn Goldie

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:49am | IP Logged
I totally agree with u jam jiBig smile awesome epiClap i hv no words for suraj... Day Dreaming

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.Ami. IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:55am | IP Logged
JAMkuda it's really thought-provoking post by raising right question.Thumbs Up.

Technically speaking Bhabho doesn't deserve Sooraj.Ouch.

Like you, I'm also falling in love with Sooraj day by day for sure but still I love Bhabho.Approve.

I'm overconfident n have immense faith in CV's DABH that they'll make us fall in love with Bhabho all over again. We need to maintain patience until Bhabho's ego get vanished n she purify her soul.Star.

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sweetycutie Goldie

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:29am | IP Logged
You poured your emotions very well JAM..!!ClapClapLove you for this post!!Hug
You've raised a very good question.Thumbs answer is No...i don't think bhabo deserves a son like suraj!!

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Brahmaputra IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:30am | IP Logged
sisy thank you dear. But you know I still love Bhabho though I lost a little respect that I had for her. It may take long time for me to regain it. I could never agree with the fact she made him discontinue his studies. I kept thinking he did it himself. But my lubly Chchora, he only cares about everyone. And I really feel bad for Bhabho for not understanding what her son really is. Someone needs a big heart to sacrifice himself in the fire of lies to keep other lives better.

sam now this is a daily marathon.LOL

rumi di thank you. Sooraj needs no words to express himself.

ami thank you for the hathoda of appreciation. I too still love Bhabho. But as I told, I can't digest the fact she only spoiled his studies without seeking any alternate ways, as per now. I do have faith in CVs that they'll come up with some other unexpected twist that would reveal the unseen sides of Bhabho. Before in some threads, I commented about Bhabho's reality and take on the issue. Sooner or later it will be proved right. Because she could never be wrong. The actual reason for why Bhabho is against all these is still not known to any. The day they will know it, I expect another big drama. She is the lead equal to SurYa. So CVs won't ditch her character. Until then let me sail the same boat.

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Brahmaputra IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 10:33am | IP Logged
thank you a lot sweety. Thanx for putting forward your opinion. I would say my opinion about this after a while, reading all replies. I think I still need to think about it. I should look for any other unseen sides also.

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