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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 4:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jan50

It was true Gauri's mistakes were pointed out by her well wishers. But madam blamed A for every thing. Like she thought Shivani was snatched away by "chaalaaki" Anandi. Only way she will redeem is lose all her friends, and get betrayed by a man who is a womanizer.lose her job. Be on the streets.that is the time she will realize that she is not all that powerful. She will have time only to reflect on what she did.
Agree, guess the only way G would have realised her faults, would have been through her failures - most importantly job loss and loss of friends on discovering about her illegal  marital status. She would have then connected the dots of what her well wishers meant. 
I wish CVs had shown a bit of downfall for G, and then a sensible parting of J-G, instead of an abrupt one. But those will only be hopes now since Anjum is not returning. 

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 4:41am | IP Logged
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I don't think Gauri ever had anyone telling her that she is going wrong.If there someone in the show I dislike more than I dislike Gauri - it is her parents.
It is obviously very difficult to make her see sense because she thinks that whatever she has done is right.So it has to be somebody much stronger than her and as smart as her with lot of patience and no nonsense attitude.
If J can be redeemed Gauri can be redeemed too.


Shivani, Kunda tai and Bade papa of all ,were her only well wishers...and they all told her that she was dead wrong in her ways. They all parted with her when she started playing victim even after listening to their advises. There were many many instances where the truth was open to her...but she chose to remain with her eyes closed. Her parents were no doubt worse than her...but education gives us some sensibility to think and react to things. Gauri lacked this sensibility and chose to remain arrogant. Even her baby's death didn't change her...instead it made her worse!


Shivani Kunda Tai and Bade papa are just that well wishers.Their lives were not completely linked to hers.
May be if she met somebody who truly care for her and at the same time not blind to her short comings and who is patient with her and no nonsense of kind of person in her life not just as well wisher but as in husband/companion.Just like J is going to get an opportunity to realise she should be given opportunity too.

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Redeeming G is a challenge. Because she still has the victim mentality. Basically a bitter person. This is where J is different. J's ,s faults were not out of a victim mentality or bitterness. He was in a position to admit that it was his greed and selfishness and immaturity out of being spoiled. His inherent qualities were still sweet and kind. He has got enough beatings both physically and mentally for his wrongs. G has not gotten even a minuscule of what she deserves yet. Her only blow was from J who walked out after slapping her. In all fairness J never disrespected her parents how ever annoying they were. But G, went out of her way to hurt the Singhs.totally ungrateful  woman. she has a big flaw in her total character which can be rectified with major failures. She owes her success to no one but herself.as Mahi pointed out, any body can change for the better or worse depending on their life experiences.people like Heth Singh , G and Ratan have never experienced total failure,rejection and miseries in life for their deeds. 

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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 5:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jan50

Redeeming G is a challenge. Because she still has the victim mentality. Basically a bitter person. This is where J is different. J's ,s faults were not out of a victim mentality or bitterness. He was in a position to admit that it was his greed and selfishness and immaturity out of being spoiled. His inherent qualities were still sweet and kind. He has got enough beatings both physically and mentally for his wrongs. G has not gotten even a minuscule of what she deserves yet. Her only blow was from J who walked out after slapping her. In all fairness J never disrespected her parents how ever annoying they were. But G, went out of her way to hurt the Singhs.totally ungrateful  woman. she has a big flaw in her total character which can be rectified with major failures. She owes her success to no one but herself.as Mahi pointed out, any body can change for the better or worse depending on their life experiences.people like Heth Singh , G and Ratan have never experienced total failure,rejection and miseries in life for their deeds. 

Gawari Madam cannot be redeemed unless she dies and takes a new birth and is blessed with decent parents and a loving caring atmosphere.

Her parents have created a selfish monster and a very insecure one at that. They shud be the ones getting punished first - if there is any fairness in this world - and then MAYBE we can hope to make G 
 - see her past and realize her mistake and 
 - admit they were mistakes and 
 - show her wanting to atone for them.

3 tasks that even Hercules might want to rethink before accepting. I however, am not that optimistic.Smile


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Posted: 17 January 2013 at 5:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jan50

Redeeming G is a challenge. Because she still has the victim mentality. Basically a bitter person. This is where J is different. J's ,s faults were not out of a victim mentality or bitterness. He was in a position to admit that it was his greed and selfishness and immaturity out of being spoiled. His inherent qualities were still sweet and kind. He has got enough beatings both physically and mentally for his wrongs. G has not gotten even a minuscule of what she deserves yet. Her only blow was from J who walked out after slapping her. In all fairness J never disrespected her parents how ever annoying they were. But G, went out of her way to hurt the Singhs.totally ungrateful  woman. she has a big flaw in her total character which can be rectified with major failures. She owes her success to no one but herself.as Mahi pointed out, any body can change for the better or worse depending on their life experiences.people like Heth Singh , G and Ratan have never experienced total failure,rejection and miseries in life for their deeds. 
i agree wid u & mahi & oders on this completely.
G'dn't met total failure like J'd. so shes only thinking that she was  wronged & oders r taking advantage of her.Sleepy
@bold true  any1 can redeem only if they cum out of their self-victim mode & G'dn't.  but sumtimes ppl even after going  thru all those situtns which they'd created 4 oders don't realize that they'd done wrong but still blame oders.may b its bcoz like mahi said their soul is dead or they want 2 live in their make-up world that they r rite.Ouch

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Gauri was doing quite well for herself getting educated moving forward in life.If she had not met Jagya she would have married that NRI or sometime later that Mr 33 with whom she was so impressed and would have gone on to live a normal life.

But Jagya if it had not been Gauri it would have been someone else.Because he was after getting an updated model for himself.He would have found himself someone less complicated and behave d the same way he behaved with his parents and Anandi.

As far as Singhs and Anandi is concerned it was Jagya who has wronged them and gave them the wounds not Gauri. Gauri was there because he brought her there with him.She did not wound them she sprinkled salt on their wounds with her behaviour.If Jagya did not cause those wounds to the Singhs and Anandi would Gauri's behaviour hurt them in any way?I don't think so.

It was obviously Jagya who brought out the worst in her.He was wrong for her just as she was wrong for him.Because they brought out the worst in each other.With Jagya the offending object once removed from her life she may become her usual self that she was before she met Jagya.If the wrong person can unleash the monster within her the right person can capture the monster inside a bottle.It is all about choosing the right person for you.



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@Aparna ...Jagaya didn't force Gauri in his life in fact it wasn't he i guess who confessed his love for her she did  first he was her choice too freedom of choiceLOL  If he wanted an upgraded version had she has two pieces of sense in her she would never let worst out of him as well but what our  point is only this the spoilt brat in him that came out Gauri didn't produce in him which made him take wrong steps it was totally DS 's production similarly what Gauri is ..is indeed production of her parents who created this monster in her they never accepted their mistake in front of her but their blame game on singhs made in her hateful vengeful streak against Singhs ..now its obvious if the person in her  life had not been Jagaya anyone else she might not have behaved like this but what Jagaya has to do with her enmity with singhs .that she has with them since childhood  ?After coming to know his reality why she accepted him back in her life was solely for this purpose that what she couldn't get in childhood which she thought was injustice done to her of course this is produced by her own parents  she tried achieve by this and as soon as  singhs didnt accept her she started her vengeful streak .Her insecurities were solely not the reason for her enmity with singhs The way she insulted Bhairo that was not  her insecure hatred but mostly poison present in her from childhood against singhs .She merely don;t have short comings in her She has a hatred in her that made her vengeful against Singhs now how DR 33  or any NRI can control her this hatred .? had she met singhs in any other way she would still be poisonous against them so i do think this hatred monster in her cannot be controlled so easily untill she recieves some 440 volts   in  her life 

PS Lets see Jagaya is no longer in her life and it is well enough proved how much  truly she loved him  her whatever wrong doing hurt him she could not  feel something little bit  but i guess she will come back now lets see how she comes as good or as even more bad 

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