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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:41am | IP Logged
Ever since Purvi's pregnancy secret has been outed, there have been a lot of posts bashing Purvi on the forum. It takes two hands to clap, two to tango, yet the recriminations are all against her, not against Arjun. Is it because even in this day and age, she is a female and therefore has to bear the brunt of blame, however unfairly?

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:43am | IP Logged
As much as I blame Purvi, I hold Arjun responsible too.

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:47am | IP Logged
I do too, glad I have company :)

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:47am | IP Logged
Yes Jahnvi, how much ever we may talk about equality, its always the woman who is blamed and not the man. Woman are the easy targets, wonder when will this change.

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by soapwatcher1

Ever since Purvi's pregnancy secret has been outed, there have been a lot of posts bashing Purvi on the forum. It takes two hands to clap, two to tango, yet the recriminations are all against her, not against Arjun. Is it because even in this day and age, she is a female and therefore has to bear the brunt of blame, however unfairly?


good post dear.. even i wanted to open a thread on it but couldnot.. thanks alot for this thread.. only purvi is not responsible for her situation.. even arjun is at guilt.. and more people say she can take a pill and avoided the pregnancy.. lol.. the condition she was in after her the marriage was not the time she can think of all those i guess.. then later the soham tension might have made her forget about taking a pill.. i dont think any girl in that state can think about it...
this is just my pov...

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by soapwatcher1

Ever since Purvi's pregnancy secret has been outed, there have been a lot of posts bashing Purvi on the forum. It takes two hands to clap, two to tango, yet the recriminations are all against her, not against Arjun. Is it because even in this day and age, she is a female and therefore has to bear the brunt of blame, however unfairly?
i am not bashng purvi to had sex wid arjun befre marriage,i blme her aftr wat she did,she frced arjun to marry ovi,i cant evn imagine my ex bf marrying my sistr,aftr knwing she is pregnantmshe cld hav tld people,and arovi marriage wld hav been broken easily,but she insisted arjun to sleep wid ovi too,wich is cheap.

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:52am | IP Logged
i hold Arjun equally responsible .

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:54am | IP Logged
Arjun is of course as responsible ..The reason why I am angry with Purvi is because I think (  in my opnion ) that she betrayed the trust that her mother had in her ...
 
Arjun also betrayed that trust but Arjun is no one to Archana but Purvi was very special to her mother , in fact Purvi was the most special person in Archana's life and she knew all that Archana had gone through in life , how conservative Archana was in her way of thinking ...stil lshe did this one day before her marriage and next day dumped the guy she slept with ...
 
This is the reason why I am put off with her ..Arjun wanted to marry her and as I said , it's Ok if he didn't think about Archana at all ( the person who gave them permission to go around and be together before getting married )  , Archana is no one to Arjun ...
 
I have zero respect for Arjun's character now .Thumbs Down


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