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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 4:37am | IP Logged

"Res" doesn't tell me what you think, it doesn't tell me how angry you are at what has happened in the past, it doesn't tell me how angry you are at what is happening now, it doesn't tell me what you want to do to change this situation. "What is your opinion?"

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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 4:52am | IP Logged
Mentality of such people is Responsible Who think They can Rape a girl, Snatch away her life , right to be happy & that's okay ...

Those Men are Responsible Who Think they are superior, Whose Ego doesnt let them see beyond themselves & For whom Rape is sometimes just an Medium To take Reveneg from any girl ( for small college fights or other petty issues ) 
  Who never teach their sons to respect women around him, who shows off his superiority over his wife in front of Children !!

Those Women are Responsible who think that Thier sons need not be taught anything. Who think that to keep mum is best option. Who think that Raising your voice Ain't a character of good girl !

Those laws are responsible which decided that 7 years jail is Enuf punishment ( mostly don't even complete that Or are not arrested at all ) ! 
A recent case - Mumbai High Court shortened the lifetime impriosnment of a Rapist( a murdered too he was ) because of his good behavior in Jail Dead within  9 months of coming out , he is arrested again for rape of a 9 yr old !!!!

Those people are responsible who think Snatching away a Woman's basic rights & marrying her in a young age ( Current one is 18 & they want it to be lowered ) would avoid rapes !!!!

Those Dramas , TV shows & movies are Responsible ( there are all sort of viewers, & one can't deny the fact that all take dramas in a good way )  who displays a picture of Male dominant society. Where a woman is supposed to spend her life in kitchen, excelling in all qualities of a good Bahu Or spend her time in making an Arrogant and unmannered guy a better person & then marry the same guy who used to torture or trouble you. You know bad boy turning good !!!!!
Those movies where Heroine , women are portrayed more as an Object rather than a person , a human Being !!

Last but not least ...WE are responsible, not keen to help, not Interested in our surroundings , until its we or our loved ones !! Who bash woman after another woman is molested ( Sonia Gandhi , shiela dikshit or anyone else ) ...why???? 
Not that we cant criticize their way of working ...but there should be a way for the same ...
 
When we speak of respect for woman...Is it only about respect for women who get raped or may get raped?? No...it's for one & all, From Country Rulers to a tribal woman !!!



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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 4:54am | IP Logged
whole system is corrupt in this country bcoz people of this country are corrupt they are not bothered with their country but they are bothered only with them selves

they have no guts to raise their voices whenever they raise it is easy to repress that voice


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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 5:29am | IP Logged

 

This is all social conditioning if you denigrate women long enough it will become acceptable and it is allowed because you don't have a political mouth piece to say no this is not right!

 

The only way you can make changes is through a supporting political entity, getting support from others and the belief that this should not go on any longer.

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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 5:48am | IP Logged
There are more males than females.
This has never happened before until recent times and it explains a lot.

Second view is

1. The government is being slack, and so the rapists can easily get away with it.
2. Most rapes aren't reported.
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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 7:28am | IP Logged
again we are all just focusing on the problem
we are talking about it
we are asking who is responsible
stop tht
it is the past
focus on how we could help on how we could change
i am not saying the government is not responsible but don't put everything on government
there is so many things we can do but i knw its easier to blame
Government is responsible but as a citizen of India we are more responsible
do something ..start from ur city ..start from ur parents..friends
if ur aware of it ..make sure u tell ppl
i know its easy and very interesting to talk about tv shows and movies but do talk about this because there is 100% chance it could happen to u ..if it happens to ppl ur close to ..it means its happening to u
so start doing ..forget who is responsible..we can't go back and change anything
but we can learn from our past 
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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 1:34pm | IP Logged

You need a group that is big enough to put pressure on politicians who will then put pressure on the government for change. You could petition people by getting names and have them join your group when you have that you have  something all politicians want "the public backing them". You would need to draft a clear outline of what your plans are to give your supporters a picture of what you are fighting for. For example education in primary schools regarding the importance of gender equality, streamlining processes to help support rape victims etc. One big problem you have is the actual mind set of the perpetrators they obviously believe that nothing will happen to them as these incidents are going on all the time. If they are not fearful of being caught then what measures could be put in place to make them change their view.

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Posted: 29 January 2013 at 7:37am | IP Logged
no y do are we focusing on politician where its ourselves we need to change
we need to change ourselves first then change politician or put pressure on them ... we have to start from something small..to do something big

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