Posted: 15 January 2013 at 4:13am | IP Logged
i came from a small city, where people read these things, comment on it, and throw the paper away.my city was a quite one, hardly heard any crime activity here.but suddenly, mostly after delhi incident, it all changed. people are more talking and we can hear some news about gangrape and kidnapping.i could'nt believe when i heard abt gang rape in my small town.the most horrible part is the girl was from my college, a 1st yr student.i am a 1st yr studnt too, may be i know that girl.my mom must be thinking that she will drop me to college, like our parents used to do when we were children.may be she will send me with a group of girl, rather than letting me go alone, will call me after reaching college, and so on and so forth.
why, its always agirl , hv to face the worst of all in this society???why cant it be safe for the girls like boys? why, if a boy comes home at late night, his mom - dad wont say anything, mostly bcoz they dnt hv to think abt his safety.why cant this country be safe for girls too, irrespective of the time and place???? and the most imp part is, if its nt now, then when??? when it will be safe???
already our country is on a race for female foeticide, child labour, dowry, sexual harrassment, taunting in streets, and many crime, mostly related to child and woman, mainly due to we know from our culture that girls are always less weak than boys.i agree, may be we are nt powerful physically, bt we are also nt their slaves that they will use and abuse us like this.rape, change it all.its easy to say, that after rape, after if she get justice, she will lead a normal life.but as a girl i think, and i know, she cant.she will still fear to go outside, fear to look at a man, fear to trust,. her whole life will be based on fear.that horrible incident wont erase from her memory.and the worst part is, the talks of her surroundings people.
when i roamed around on internet during delhi incident, i came across many sympathetic tweets, fb page, blogs.bt always one questions come in my mind, we all support that girl.but what if we know that girl is none other than our neighbour's daughter? what will we do? initially, we all support them, console them.bt after some days, we will start to find the reason she get raped. if she was outside for late hours? if she was characterless and surrendered herself? if she was a prostitute and doing this coz she hv nt received exact money? does nt it is the worst of this all???the thinking that she was raped, mey be there was some reason.
may be i am getting of topic, the topic was why is rape happening? i think rape happens, first of all, moral degradation, thn bcoz our country's law is nt powerful.moral degradation is nt only of those scamheads who commited that, of the police offiicers and the soceity too who blame the girl instead of those who responsible. rape, harassment, only can be stopped, if our govt. make strong law, and make some examples that rape or harassmnts wont be tolerate.. and secondly, we hv to change our mentality.nt to show our support on social network, we hv to show support to the housemaid who always get bashed in her workplace, or our colleague, who get harassed by her boss.support, fight only can stop this crimes.also, we hv to teach our youngers, boys, girls, to respect person, irrespective of gender, as a man.and if our elders also wrong, change their attitude too.help the girl to whom some roadside romeo is taunting.help support and fight it together. it will surely change it all.
i am really ashamed that i am and indian, and scared to be a girl. i hv promised myself , that i wont tolerate any abuse to me, or to any other girl. i will surely help any girl in problem, if any other person is nt helping her. will fight and die rather than sit and thinking what our country have become.
and to guys who thnk girls as their father's property to abuse
and if anygirl walk around wearing only a bikini, so what?? the guys got some license to rape her? who give them that? change ur attitude, its nt abt the cloth, its ur dirty mentality. and how dare u thnk of raping a girl and destroy her life? if u hv no gd work to do, commit suicide.better nt mess with any girl outside, who knows, the nxt victim will be ur sis/gf/ sil ??? dnt do it urself, dnt let others do it too.