After his first year medicine also he used to come home once a year and I think he treated her the same way he did when he was in first year continue to use her and humiliate her.If he had not maintained physical relationship she would have suspected long time back that her husband has found someone.She only got the impression that she is not able to live upto her husband's expectations any more.
Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian
I think anandi has developed Erotophobia : fear of intimate love.. once bitten ,forever shy..she is becoming classic case of this proverb..its like if a kid falls from a swing ..they r afraid to try it again fearing the same agony.. unless someone encourages and gently nudges them towards it. and with affection and protection show how much fun it can be..A's heart has closed Jagya's chapter before marriage..but is shuddering at the thoughtof opening up for this new guy.. nothing to do with jagya anymore i think..but the insecurity is making her push shiv away..probably shiv will understand soon, that he has to open the window first in her heart to let the fresh air come in...
i don;t think it happened anywhere ..these are just self assumptions not shown in serial have they shown any such FLASHBACK ..NO those she is having of their intimacy before he started mistreating her they didn't even shot a new one just like that Shiv Parvati idol one they didn't so from where came this blame ? he had not maintained any physical relationship with her after his first year of medical enterance. Staying two minutes with Anandi was suffocation for him he called her gawar touching her would be mission impossible for him she use to touch him he would burn in fire he was insulting her so she can get lost from his life and he can have his life with Gauri and you are saying he was having physical relation with her as well then insulting her ?never shown in serial if it happened then cvs would have shown at least one flashback of it where called her useless in these matters and was using her besides insulting her like this ..
Originally posted by: Shivandi
Thanks in advance for the update! 😊
The precap today actually broke my heart 😠Like completely. I understand that the CV's are trying to drive at a beautiful reconciliation, and I don't doubt it'll go that way. I also know that this fits in with the bhondu-ness of Shiv's character, like when he didn't know that Ashima liked/loved him or didn't know that Anandi wasn't happy about the jalebis or whatever. But the problem is they've also shown that he can read Anandi's mind with no big problem, can tell her hands blindfolded, can tell what she wants and doesn't want. I guess they just really wanted an Anandi in tears (again 😡) scene, because what comes after will probably be lovely (it better be! 😳), but I just wish they'd toned down on Shiv being overbearing. The scene with his arms around her and her crying was a bit too much - Shiv would know if Anandi was crying, yaar. It was also kind of intimidating, because Pratyusha's so small, and Sid's so big and strong.On the bright side, she called him Shiv! I clapped in joy. 😃
aparnauma Jagaya never had any physical relation with Anandi once he fell for Gauri , he never even touched her in that manner so how he was using her like that as well as insulting her? When he fell for Gauri staying two minutes in one room with Anandi was mission impossible for him he was only insulting her regarding her lack of education , her wisdom , her village manners like cooked food she had put all oil in it he insulted her ,the newly shot FB of Shiv parvati's idol etc , but none was related to physical intimacy because he never use to be this close to her once he fell for Gauri so how and when he abused her in this context? i don't think Jagaya ever gave any physical abuse to Anandi . .Originally posted by: aparnauma
After his first year medicine also he used to come home once a year and I think he treated her the same way he did when he was in first year continue to use her and humiliate her.If he had not maintained physical relationship she would have suspected long time back that her husband has found someone.She only got the impression that she is not able to live upto her husband's expectations any more.
i am only saying what i have seen in serial what cvs have shown .i believe they have shown J getting 440 jhatka when A use to near him in all those four years he spent 24 / 7 whenever he was around fuming at her finding ways so he can burst out at her and she stay away from him so from where i can assume he was having physical relation with her ?he was all the time finding ways to get away from her and day dream about Gauri or chat with her or run to Mumbai as soon as possible so how i can assume he is getting physical with her ?suspicions were there in her mind but she never disclosed them openly but tried to change herself to match J's needs for example getting education etc but that doesn't mean she never had suspicions in her mind , her many steps at that proved suspicions were there in her mindOriginally posted by: aparnauma
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You mean to say that he never had any relationship with her in the next four years ans she never suspected anything?She may have been Gawar but she was never dumb. she would definitely got doubts about him being involved with another woman if he did not maintain physical relationship with her.Whether the woman is from rural or urban educated or not she would definitely findi it suspicious if her man did not sleep with her.Anandi would have definitely been suspicoius is that were the case.She just thought that he has changed after going to town.
After his first year medicine also he used to come home once a year and I think he treated her the same way he did when he was in first year continue to use her and humiliate her.If he had not maintained physical relationship she would have suspected long time back that her husband has found someone.She only got the impression that she is not able to live upto her husband's expectations any more.
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