~DOTW:Love vs Friendship~

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shibz

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Posted: 07 January 2013 at 3:30am | IP Logged

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So as per the ongoing track we have Chabra getting mad at Soumya for preferring her friends over her boyfriend. Although it's only friendship and not love between Soumya and Kundra, our Chabra is insecure that Soumya gives Kundra and her gang more importance than him.

My question is what would you guyz prefer, Friendship or Love? And Why?

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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 7:51am | IP Logged

I prefer friendship. Friendship is forever, love may not be. It is important be first a friend and then a lover. I can say however, that just being a friend isn't everything. You need to understand and be by your friend at all times.

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shibz

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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 9:32am | IP Logged

^^but love is important...every one needs a companion for life.. will you prefer a friend over your love even after you are settled?

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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 10:24am | IP Logged

Originally posted by shibz

^^but love is important...every one needs a companion for life.. will you prefer a friend over your love even after you are settled?

See that's hard to decide. Because both are important in life.

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 11:43am | IP Logged

see both love and friends are imp
seeing soumya's situation sometimes i too feel she must give chabra time...though spending time with kundra and gang isn't bad
it would have helped them to understand each other
i would have gone for friends Wink

...love baad mein bhi mil sakta hai.(nahi toh parents choice ROFL

)...true friends kaha milenge LOL

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kavyasam

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Posted: 14 January 2013 at 7:14pm | IP Logged

Not with respect to the track in the show but in general my view would be, If there is a situation where love or friendship is to be chosen then I would chose Love. Friends will understand, they know that the Love phase is more important because it involves a much deeper and sweeter feeling. If a person is so much into friends that the lover feels he/she being ignored then the person should take some time off and work on the relationship. Agar friends sacche hai toh they themselves would tell her/ him to go spend more time with the lover. Love over Friendship for me.

(if the choice is inevitable). Because lover needs to be coaxed, needs attention and feels to be appreciated, and all of it needs spending time together.

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Posted: 15 January 2013 at 1:15am | IP Logged

I thnk both r equally imp. If u gve ur more time to ur frnd then its ovious that ur love feel insecure n as per soumya's situation i thnk she must gve time to chabra as her frnds.

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Posted: 15 January 2013 at 3:35am | IP Logged

Originally posted by kavyasam

Not with respect to the track in the show but in general my view would be, If there is a situation where love or friendship is to be chosen then I would chose Love. Friends will understand, they know that the Love phase is more important because it involves a much deeper and sweeter feeling. If a person is so much into friends that the lover feels he/she being ignored then the person should take some time off and work on the relationship. Agar friends sacche hai toh they themselves would tell her/ him to go spend more time with the lover. Love over Friendship for me. Tongue

(if the choice is inevitable). Because lover needs to be coaxed, needs attention and feels to be appreciated, and all of it needs spending time together.

ditto

choosing a friend over love is better said than done.. Friends will be there but it's your partner(love) you are gonna live with till the end.. Friends will have their own life and family..they wont be there with you always..so preferring friendship over love is quite stupid if one asks me. And like you said, if friends are true they will themselves tell you that you should give more time to your love..unless the friends are not bothered or prefer their own problem over yours. In such cases one should know what to do. Such friends dont really need the attention you must be giving to your love.

When the time comes and you are in love you will naturally choose your love over friends i believe.

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