Does less clothing provoke assaults? (Page 6)

Nkapoor3

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Posted: 08 January 2013 at 4:55pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by hmmm...

Originally posted by Nkapoor3

Originally posted by mahirakhan9

in islam u shed be wearing full clothes and ur head covered!

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and i think its the best for women!

fashion jaye bhar mei!

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</div><div>why are rules different for men and women?? men should also cover their head then!

girl are you serious? Allah has made men and women to compliment each other not to compete with each other. Pardon me for corrupting some innocent minds here but I think I need to give an explicit example. A man and woman get married, Islamically, non-islamically IN EVERY SINGLE CULTURE the lady dresses up for the man in something call lingerie. Men usually are not asked to adorn themselves with lingerie because NATURE has already decided that men wearing earings, necklaces, lingere, doesn't usually turn the female species ON whereas it's a different case the other way around. So yes, to answer your topic questions, less cloths do turn on the male species. Now there is a vast majority of males around the world that are therki (I hope u know what that means) and they will get turned on by the mere presence of a female around them. So you do what you are told to do. Women are supposed to conceal their aura and men are supposed to lower their gaze. Each individual is answerable to Allah for their own deeds.

And to answer your above question, why men are not asked to cover their head, the answer is their zulfain are not part of men's aura but for women it is part of their aura. Please don't ask me to translate aura for you. Secondly, in Islam, there is a dress code for men as well which people tend to completely ignore. They are also supposed to wear loose, modest clothing. The shirts where their muscles are popping out of the baby gap t-shirts are not allowed. So yes, they have restrictions too but different restriction since they are created differently. God knows what he created and HE very well knows what is BEST for his creations. He has given us the guidelines which are good for our own selves. These restrictions don't benefit Allah swt but they benefit us. As a Muslim, if one doesn't understand wisdom behind certain guidelines, the least we should do is to understand one thing that Allah swt CANNOT be wrong and it is our limited understanding because of which I am not able to grasp the wisdom a certain rule. If you sincerely want to know the answer to your questions, don't look for them in forums where you will find answers which supposedly sound cool, look for your answers in Quran and hadith.

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Originally posted by MSluvsSI

I am like kAshaf Disapprove

N i m gona probably do da same if it happenes with me in my first uni day !!

N People LiKE zAroon Exsists its my own brother in law !!

n Related to ur topci My views are different n here people wil not agre to dm so i would not like to share dm !!

its an open forum, evveryone is free to share their views, you dont have to agree with everyone :)

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In islam, women have been told to cover themselves in the sense that they should only reveal their beauty to their husband. This is also a form of protection from other men. Men have also been told to lower their gaze and not look at other women, but instead of blaming men for looking at them shouldn't women just do what they can to keep themselves protected?

It is true that the society these days has become dominated by males, men get away with everything and women usually get blamed for everything especially in India/Pakistan. I have heard about many cases in India even such as rape cases when the victim (woman) is blamed for it such as why was she out at this time, why was she wearing such clothes that provoked the assault, etc. It's just the way our society has become now. Confused

Back to the question about less clothing provoking assaults, imagine if there are two women walking together, one is fully covered while the other one is wearing more tight or revealing clothing, who would the men be attracted to more? They would stare the one wearing less clothing, right?

I have even noticed in shopping malls in Pakistan men are more likely to stare at a girl when she is wearing western clothes, and I am saying this from experience.

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Posted: 11 January 2013 at 10:38pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by _QueenofHearts_

In islam, women have been told to cover themselves in the sense that they should only reveal their beauty to their husband. This is also a form of protection from other men. Men have also been told to lower their gaze and not look at other women, but instead of blaming men for looking at them shouldn't women just do what they can to keep themselves protected?

It is true that the society these days has become dominated by males, men get away with everything and women usually get blamed for everything especially in India/Pakistan. I have heard about many cases in India even such as rape cases when the victim (woman) is blamed for it such as why was she out at this time, why was she wearing such clothes that provoked the assault, etc. It's just the way our society has become now. Confused

Back to the question about less clothing provoking assaults, imagine if there are two women walking together, one is fully covered while the other one is wearing more tight or revealing clothing, who would the men be attracted to more? They would stare the one wearing less clothing, right?

I have even noticed in shopping malls in Pakistan men are more likely to stare at a girl when she is wearing western clothes, and I am saying this from experience.

men should lower their gaze, does not matter what the woman is wearing! Follow Islam Muslim men!!

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Exactly! Thanks Arwen and Sana.

Why is religion being brought in? All of us know what the religion says. The issue here is culture and how men seem to be exempt from everything while woman have to conform to men.

This is an issue of morality, of humanity. Assaulting and raping are wrong period! It does not matter what a woman is wearing, assaulting and raping someone is just immoral, and inhumane.

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Posted: 11 January 2013 at 11:29pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by Nkapoor3

Originally posted by _QueenofHearts_

In islam, women have been told to cover themselves in the sense that they should only reveal their beauty to their husband. This is also a form of protection from other men. Men have also been told to lower their gaze and not look at other women, but instead of blaming men for looking at them shouldn't women just do what they can to keep themselves protected?

It is true that the society these days has become dominated by males, men get away with everything and women usually get blamed for everything especially in India/Pakistan. I have heard about many cases in India even such as rape cases when the victim (woman) is blamed for it such as why was she out at this time, why was she wearing such clothes that provoked the assault, etc. It's just the way our society has become now. Confused

Back to the question about less clothing provoking assaults, imagine if there are two women walking together, one is fully covered while the other one is wearing more tight or revealing clothing, who would the men be attracted to more? They would stare the one wearing less clothing, right?

I have even noticed in shopping malls in Pakistan men are more likely to stare at a girl when she is wearing western clothes, and I am saying this from experience.

men should lower their gaze, does not matter what the woman is wearing! Follow Islam Muslim men!!

Yeah but Women should also cover themselves as per Islam

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Posted: 12 January 2013 at 1:13am | IP Logged

When men do not follow their part? Why should women?

Originally posted by --Nida--

Originally posted by Nkapoor3

Originally posted by _QueenofHearts_

In islam, women have been told to cover themselves in the sense that they should only reveal their beauty to their husband. This is also a form of protection from other men. Men have also been told to lower their gaze and not look at other women, but instead of blaming men for looking at them shouldn't women just do what they can to keep themselves protected?

It is true that the society these days has become dominated by males, men get away with everything and women usually get blamed for everything especially in India/Pakistan. I have heard about many cases in India even such as rape cases when the victim (woman) is blamed for it such as why was she out at this time, why was she wearing such clothes that provoked the assault, etc. It's just the way our society has become now. Confused

Back to the question about less clothing provoking assaults, imagine if there are two women walking together, one is fully covered while the other one is wearing more tight or revealing clothing, who would the men be attracted to more? They would stare the one wearing less clothing, right?

I have even noticed in shopping malls in Pakistan men are more likely to stare at a girl when she is wearing western clothes, and I am saying this from experience.

men should lower their gaze, does not matter what the woman is wearing! Follow Islam Muslim men!!

Yeah but Women should also cover themselves as per Islam

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