Sandhya becomes mother (Page 2)

I agree with rp n Fatima ji...!!! Its not like that a woman can not make career when a baby comes but Sandy is young n more importantly not yet ready 4 a baby...!!! Be mentally prepared is a huge thing...!!! And until she is ready... SurYa should not have a kid...!!! And it should be a decision of husband n wife only... No way in laws should interfere between the couple...!!!

i dont think that if sandhya became a mother it will stop her from becoming ips officer. i am sure that she can manage both looking after baby n work well. Its not right for babho to force sandhya to have a baby. Sandhya n suraj should become parents when they are ready mentally n physically.

Edited by -Ritu567- - 05 January 2013 at 11:26am

agreed. couldnt have said it better.

In star pariwaar ,Sandhya introduced Mary Kom herself to Bhabho that she is a boxing champion and a mother of three.So, Bhabho may get inspired from mary kom and tells to sandhya that u can follow the path of mary kom ,i.e,IPS after becoming mother.

To carry the discussion further, the comparison  with Mary Kom, a mother of two children is inappropriate. Mary Kom  has a complete support system in the form of her family and her mother in law to support her. In boxing there is no such specified age limit like the civil services. In the case of Sandhya the support system  is not there. The question here is not pursuing a career, it is passing the exam, which requires intense preparation of practically 12 to 14 hours a day. She can pursue her career as an IPS only after she passes the exam. Do you honestly think with a regressive Rathi Parivar setup where even studying for BA is difficult somebody can pass the civil services ? I agree with Fathima that child bearing should be decided between husband and wife. However if we assume she is pressurised by Bhabo and she concedes, here it is not an ordinary career you are talking about. With a child in arms can you really study that long? Bhabo who keeps calling Chavvi without ever giving any importance to her graduation, will spare the DIL and say chalo padh lo beta 14 ghante saara kaam aur bache ko sambhalna main aur Meenudi kar lenge...Agar aisa hua to duniya ka aathwa ajooba hoga.

Edited by UMDU - 07 January 2013 at 6:49am

Though Bhabo has given a ultimatum to Dhaisa, but SurYa are in no position to have a kid at this stage, especially when it is crucial time for IPS preparation. Suraj will keep Bhabo contended with one or another thing, but how long will he be able to do that, that is a big question, and Bhabo's sudden ultimatum is surely a twist in the tale, but Bhabo may forget it in the sea of other issues- Mohit issue, Meena problems and all just like Sandy forgot to gift Suraj what he asked for

May be Bhabho dies of heart attack from the shocking behaviour of Mohit,Suraj and Meena.

Ohh if that happens, then all problems will get solved automatically and we won't be interrupted with SurYa moments