Originally posted by vidyasabde
Originally posted by Sujatha.rao
Ashutosh is all set to walk the ramp apparently...quite possibly, Sharad Kelkar will look smokin hot and will make all of us swoon when he strides down the ramp..but the idea of our Ashutosh on the ramp somehow rankles...since when did the quiet, dignified doctor turn a ramp model...even if it is for a cause or something...I mean I can imagine Ashutosh making out a cheque, singing a song even if it is a children's cause or something...but strut up and down a ramp...I don't know...
I don't know...but the Nidhi on the show and the Mallika in this FF seem rather similar to me...both are bent on moulding a man to suit their tastes!
Anyway, I suppose we need to forget all about characterization..and just drool over Mr Hawwt!
Actually love makes a person do most unusual things. Ashu in the show has never tested the so many things which he should hve when young.
Nidhi has no hichkichahat in expressing her desires with respect to Ashu and it should be so in every relation. now it is upto Ashu after trying once he likes it or not. Sometimes Nidhi's desires may sound weired but stiill she has full rights to express it infront of Ashu. Even Ashu can demand similarly from Nidhi ,but as yet he has not learned about his rights , he is learning to adjust with Nidhi. he has to learn that joy doubles if shared with beloved one.
Vidya, maybe I am old-fashioned or maybe I am too individualistic...but I don't like imposing my thoughts or desires on people...I am not saying it is wrong for everyone...just that I do not like it...even today, after two decades of marriage, I do not let my husband tell me what to do or what to wear...and I do not do it either...and frankly, I liked the mature, sensitive and reserved Ashutosh very much...this new version does not hold much appeal to me as a viewer...like I said, It works fine for Sharad Kelkar...but not for Ashutosh...purely from my pov of course!
and frankly, I hope Ashutosh does not demand anything from Nidhi...that would make him change beyond recognition...the fact that he has not pushed her even on something as significant as a baby, despite his own desires, is indicative of his respect for space in a relationship!
I liked the Nidhi who respected Ashutosh's space and did not compel him to dance, be it at their Sangeet or at Anjie's Sangeet...his gesture acquired so much more significance there, simply because it was done out of love!
Edited by Sujatha.rao - 24 December 2012 at 1:39am