Originally posted by nniks
Frankly speaking I find this daughter being paraya dhan thinking very regressive and patriachal.
Why is she expected to make her hubby's home "her world" and forget all abt her mayaka ?
Serving in laws is a choice not duty...
I dont find anything wrong in anandi's behaviour...she is pretty comfortable and happy with shekhars..yeah she needs time to be totally at ease coz its just few days after her wedding.
With time she will open up more.
She is getting comfortable with Shiv too...i think u missed the hug and button episode.
yeah she has not gone to the next level yet but she will be there soon.
Going back to jaitser was Shiv's decision not hers
She is in circuit house not haveli...she just went there for a visit with CM's permission.
If she is sharing her mayaka's concern wats wrong with tht ??
Shld a daughter forget all abt her parents after marriage?
Sorry but I dont agree to this..
And she is not worrying abt jagya..she never mentioned jagya kaisa hoga kis haal mein hoga like DS...She is worried for bhairov n sumitra.
imagine a real life scenario few days after marriage a girl comes to know tht one of her sibling or family member is missed wont she be concerned??
wont she go back home n try to console her family?
would she sit happy in "Her world" hubby's home and enjoy.
[/QUOTE] Nniks, agree with every thing that you have said except the part highlighted in bold. Singhs are like her parents, but Jagya is not her sibling. He is her Ex.
As Hooked explained, till that episode, we had only seen Shiv taking efforts from all angles, while A was all immersed into herself. To top it up, when she went on Jagya-jap, it irked some viewers.
However both these issues were very well addressed in yesterday's epsiode. And above all , Anandi had made good efforts to go close to Shiv and family in the last 2 episodes. So hoping for more balance from her in future with respect to all her relationships.
Edited by Missesha - 17 January 2013 at 4:49am