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Idle ANNMT.

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Posted: 13 January 2013 at 12:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

I think we have been so engrossed in demanding justice and punishing rapists that we have forgotten the other part of the equation - the victim. One of the most important thing for rape victims is rehabilitation and assimilation back into normal life. Otherwise many rape victims, commit suicide due to the overwhelming shame and guilt society associates with rape. Even if the rapist is charged and sentence. In a nation like India where there is so much emphasis on virtue and virginity, the stigma of rape is far more painful.

What we need is a great physical, emotional and social health care system that helps victims deal with this post traumatic distress. We need support groups and psychiatrists so that victims can share their emotions, receive counseling and emotional care.

We need a society that tells a rape victim that it is not her fault. We need a society that reassures her that she does not have to be a victim forever, but can go back to being just another girl with her hopes and dreams. We need a society that tells her she is not damaged nor has she lost her dignity and virtue. she is still beautiful and perfect. We need a society that becomes her support system and encourages her to go back to school, go back to work, go back and liver her dreams. We need a society that embraces her as a friend, as a family member, as a girlfriend, as a wife, as a mother and as someone who still has the right to fall in love and start her own family.

And yes, men are victims too and we need a society that protects men in a similar fashion as well. What is the point of punishing the rapists if we leave the victim to be broken, hurt and depressed forever as a social outcast or labeled with the dreaded tag "rape victim". We need both punishment and rehabilitation of victims.

But both these are just cures or fixes to the problem. More important than everything else is prevention. How do we raise men and women who respect each other? How do we build a society where no means no? Forget rape, how do we build a society where even eve teasing or groping does not exist? How do we prevent something like this taking place itself?
 ur POV is so correct but how  we   can chage our society   , in the end evry man wants a pure , vergin girl  for himself  n all people ( women n man ) support  his this  desire  whole heartedly ,  doble standard  starts  from there

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Posted: 15 January 2013 at 8:24pm | IP Logged
I would say first throw acid on private part and then cut it off.
Torture them like hell before burning alive, they dont deserve to live and should rot in hell Censored

Idle zorrro

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Posted: 16 January 2013 at 7:36am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ANNMT.

Originally posted by return_to_hades

I think we have been so engrossed in demanding justice and punishing rapists that we have forgotten the other part of the equation - the victim. One of the most important thing for rape victims is rehabilitation and assimilation back into normal life. Otherwise many rape victims, commit suicide due to the overwhelming shame and guilt society associates with rape. Even if the rapist is charged and sentence. In a nation like India where there is so much emphasis on virtue and virginity, the stigma of rape is far more painful.

What we need is a great physical, emotional and social health care system that helps victims deal with this post traumatic distress. We need support groups and psychiatrists so that victims can share their emotions, receive counseling and emotional care.

We need a society that tells a rape victim that it is not her fault. We need a society that reassures her that she does not have to be a victim forever, but can go back to being just another girl with her hopes and dreams. We need a society that tells her she is not damaged nor has she lost her dignity and virtue. she is still beautiful and perfect. We need a society that becomes her support system and encourages her to go back to school, go back to work, go back and liver her dreams. We need a society that embraces her as a friend, as a family member, as a girlfriend, as a wife, as a mother and as someone who still has the right to fall in love and start her own family.

And yes, men are victims too and we need a society that protects men in a similar fashion as well. What is the point of punishing the rapists if we leave the victim to be broken, hurt and depressed forever as a social outcast or labeled with the dreaded tag "rape victim". We need both punishment and rehabilitation of victims.

But both these are just cures or fixes to the problem. More important than everything else is prevention. How do we raise men and women who respect each other? How do we build a society where no means no? Forget rape, how do we build a society where even eve teasing or groping does not exist? How do we prevent something like this taking place itself?
 ur POV is so correct but how  we   can chage our society   , in the end evry man wants a pure , vergin girl  for himself  n all people ( women n man ) support  his this  desire  whole heartedly ,  doble standard  starts  from there
 
If every man want a pure girl and all support it then who makes any girl impure Confused

Idle mahiya

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Posted: 21 January 2013 at 4:01am | IP Logged


Share with everybody you know, particularly your wife, sisters, daughters, nieces, mother, female friends and colleagues.

At a petrol pump, a man came over and offered his services as a painter to a lady filling petrol in her car and left his visiting card. She said nothing but accepted his card out of sheer kindness and got into the car. The man then got into a car driven by another person.
As t
he lady left the service station, she saw the men following her out of the station at the same time. Almost immediately, she started to feel dizzy and could not catch her breath. She tried to open the window and realised that the odour was on her hand; the same hand with which she had received the card from the person at the service station.
She then noticed the men were immediately behind her and she felt she needed to do something at that moment. She drove into the first driveway and began to honk her horn repeatedly to ask for help.
The men drove away but the lady still felt pretty bad for several minutes after she could finally catch her breath.
Apparently, there was a substance on the card that could have seriously injured her.
This drug is called 'BURUNDANGA'. (Not known To People So Far but
sufficient Information Is available in the Net) and it is used by people who
wish to incapacitate a victim in order to steal from or take advantage of
them. This drug is four times more dangerous than the date rape drug and is transferable on a simple card or paper.. So please take care and make sure you don't accept cards when you are alone or from someone on the streets. This applies to those making house calls and slipping you a card when they offer their services.

Yes .. Such Incident Can Happen With Everyone ..
Be Safe!!!

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