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DOTW - 16th December 2012 (Page 5)

-Zaara-. IF-Rockerz

Joined: 19 June 2009
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Posted: 20 December 2012 at 12:18pm | IP Logged
Udnis I feel the same way..wasn't expecting so many replies actually but I'm feeling lazy

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-Liebe- IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 20 January 2010
Posts: 21839

Posted: 20 December 2012 at 12:29pm | IP Logged
@razia......oh teri...not feeling lazy...but i didnt reply to all in some threads...that y...maintaining here also...will come to discuss after my mind free...

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-SamiR- Goldie

Joined: 12 October 2012
Posts: 1406

Posted: 20 December 2012 at 5:11pm | IP Logged
Regarding Suraj's 'costly mistakes', I would have to disagree. Firstly, the idea that Suraj should've hid the IPS part does not sound realistic. From a literary point of view, Suraj starting out with deception does not suit his character. It was appropriate to show him argue his case with full honesty and disclosure. From a tactical POV, I don't see how this strategy is more advantageous. Why would Bhabho agree to let her beendni graduate, without any sound reason? If helping Chavi is the reason, Bhabho would opt for extra tuitions for Chavi, rather than to educate Sandhya. Btw, isn't hiding the IPS part also a form of deception? Why is this okay, but not the hiding of night college? Confused
As for the idea of whether blackmailing Bhabho would've worked, UMDU ji has made some valid points. But alas, we might have to agree to disagree on this one. I agree that there was a chance that going down this road would've offered some sort of success, but there was also a significant chance of failure (as I've stated in my previous post). I just don't see Bhabho being so receptive to the idea of blackmail. And comparing this to when Bhabho agreed to Suraj's WTC participation is not a fair comparison.
@ Deebz - I liked your interesting take from a different angle! Thumbs Up There is a bit of a generalization with regards to 'men' .. but that's okay; I forgive you Approve Tongue LOL
@ All - thanks for the appreciation, but I'm just trying to present the other side (seeing as how JAMi is absent Disapprove; unfortunately, her shoes are too big to fill! Ouch I hope she comes back soon). I hope I was able to show to some extent that Suraj didn't have an easy choice to make. Some might not agree with his choice, but I hope we all can at least appreciate the difficult position he was in. On the bright side, at least there hasn't been a need for me to defend Sandhya for quite some time now! LOL

Edited by -SamiR- - 20 December 2012 at 5:58pm

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.Ami. IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 10 January 2012
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Posted: 21 December 2012 at 9:52am | IP Logged
@Ghajini Amma:- Oh no!D'ohYou also started to discuss from technical, literal, rational/irrational, logical/illogical POVs??Disapprove.

Are you student of science, psychology, literature, philosophy, computer science, political science??Wacko

Chalo, I'm moving on your footprints. Jack of all but master of none.Approve.

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Brahmaputra IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 12 February 2012
Posts: 13307

Posted: 21 December 2012 at 10:00am | IP Logged
almost all points are already discussed. So no more hathoda inputs from me. All I can say is in future Sandy may not be able to fulfil her dream if she cant do it now. For bigger dreams, bigger sacrifices are to be made- (thanks to naina for this quote). I myself am now preparing for a competitive exam which has got me many enemies saying I am neglecting them. I need to study. Its my necessity. If they dont understand, its their problem. Likewise, its Bhabho's problem if she cannot understand Sandy. Its rude to say Sandy should not study for Bhabho not liking. Also as now she has no other way, she has to hide it. I support it. Its the law of nature that one should give its way to another. Both Sandy's & Bhabho's wishes cant be fulfilled at a time. So Sunny took a strong step. Lord Krishna had not stopped Arjuna from slaying Karna because that was the right at that time. Sometimes the answer for a wrong is a wrong only, not necessary to be only right. So this is the right now here. No other way. Thats it.

@samir bro- you remembered & I am here...

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-SamiR- Goldie

Joined: 12 October 2012
Posts: 1406

Posted: 21 December 2012 at 1:35pm | IP Logged
@amiLOL what can I say? UMDU ji's points are so well thought out and layered, so I have to reply in somewhat of a sophisticated way na.

@JAMi - Great to see you add to the discussion JAMi! Wish you the best for your exams Thumbs Up

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Deebz IF-Dazzler

Joined: 06 April 2012
Posts: 3434

Posted: 21 December 2012 at 5:09pm | IP Logged
Good luck with your exams Jam! Liked your input. 

SamiR, it is a flattering generalization in my opinion hahaLOL

Let me just add that although I don't blame SurYa for hiding stuff thus far, I would much rather see Suraj being strong enough to say to Bhabo, that he fully intends to complete his wife's dream and face the consequences. 

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