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Anandi is also a pendulum like Jagya.Swings from one extreme to another extreme.

It seems like she can never do anything right.If she loves Singhs and pretends to be J's wife she is mahaan.

If she expresses doubts about her capability to love Shiv she becomes selfish.

I guess there is no middle ground for Anandi.No matter what she can never be considered as an ordinary human being.

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Originally posted by aparnauma

Anandi is also a pendulum like Jagya.Swings from one extreme to another extreme.

It seems like she can never do anything right.If she loves Singhs and pretends to be J's wife she is mahaan.

If she expresses doubts about her capability to love Shiv she becomes selfish.

I guess there is no middle ground for Anandi.No matter what she can never be considered as an ordinary human being.

Aparna.,

U are Right...

Why can't for once., we accept...Anandi is an average human being with a flaw...who may not have an understanding of what truly., the kind of LOVE a woman should feel for HER man is...

It would solve so many doubts., with just that one assumption., which most probably is the truth...

Edited by adi2512 - 07 December 2012 at 3:38am

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Originally posted by jack0007

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yes i get wat u r trying to say..

but i felt it was wrong when she asked shiv to marry him to fulfill her mothers promise..but it was fine given the circumstances that she was still in trauma of her mothers death n everyone was forcing her to marry..

but today she verywell knows what she is doing n even she knows the reason shiv agreed to marry her when dadisaa asked him.. if she always thought that she could not love shiv why did she bash him when shiv was calling off the marriage... it was not that anyone forced her ...even dadisaa wanted her to go back to jagya... at that point her decision to marry shiv was totally her own and not forced..

she bashed shiv for not understanding what she felt or wanted which obviously meant that she wanted to marry shiv probably bcoz she thought may be she cud find happiness n probably love again... at that point she was not marrying shiv just for the sake of others happiness

thats y todays episode comes as a shock.

there is differnce between not loving someone(presently) n feeling that you can never love someone.. sumitra was right anandi's words felt like it was just a 'sumjhota'.

if she always felt that way y wud she want to marry him in the first place?

there was a part of me hoping that anandi wud fall in love wid shiv bfore marriage.. for even if she fell in love with shiv after marriage how wud that be different from her love for jagya which was kind of forced?

In all arranged marriages love happens after marriage. So you would call that love forced too. But arranged marriages happen in India and many ppl go for that.

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reshmiroy2012

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Anandi is becoming a confused character day by day. She does not have any balance of mind.
Shiv has told her a number of times to rethink and every time she just gave a lecture i want to move on. Now she has spoken out her mind - love happens only once and she cannot love shiv. What is her problem? Her ego, she did not want another man to walk off her so she just hold him back. Or she wanted to do a favor for him since she knows he will be sad if she walks off. It is not expected from Anandi. She is in doubt she should go to shiv and tell him the truth and call off the marriage. She cannot torture him with a love less marriage life long. She is strong enough to lead a life alone or she can go back to her only love jagya.
She is becoming like jagya ready to lie and insult a man's care, love and honesty. This also gives a wrong picture of woman.
Anandi - you have cared for unknown person, now when it comes to the man who has done so much for you, you are deceiving him. Now shiv becoming negative is quite usual. Then we will see who becomes you third saviour or you are compelled to come back to J.

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Originally posted by reshmiroy2012

Anandi is becoming a confused character day by day. She does not have any balance of mind.
Shiv has told her a number of times to rethink and every time she just gave a lecture i want to move on. Now she has spoken out her mind - love happens only once and she cannot love shiv. What is her problem? Her ego, she did not want another man to walk off her so she just hold him back. Or she wanted to do a favor for him since she knows he will be sad if she walks off. It is not expected from Anandi. She is in doubt she should go to shiv and tell him the truth and call off the marriage. She cannot torture him with a love less marriage life long. She is strong enough to lead a life alone or she can go back to her only love jagya.
She is becoming like jagya ready to lie and insult a man's care, love and honesty. This also gives a wrong picture of woman.
Anandi - you have cared for unknown person, now when it comes to the man who has done so much for you, you are deceiving him. Now shiv becoming negative is quite usual. Then we will see who becomes you third saviour or you are compelled to come back to J.

Anandi is not like that . She has not decided that she can never love Shiv. She is scared that she may not be able to return his love. There is a difference between the two.

She is not deceiving Shiv. Shiv knows Anandi does not love him. But he is ready to marry her and believes she will love him back some day, He said this infront of Singhs and his family before he went after Anandi the day he tried to call off the wedding.

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Posted: 08 December 2012 at 1:57pm | IP Logged

May be i am proved wrong. We do not want to see a messed up AnSh relationship post marriage.

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@poiu123

even in arranged marriages or second marriage a persons enters d marriage wid a clean slate..

love is not necessary at d time of marriage but going into a marriage with open mind n heart is important n dat is wat we thought anandi did when she dumped jagyas memories n said to dadisaa dat she has moved on-- dat she is no longer bragging about d past..

also all romantic moments dat followed until dis episode showed anandis' willingness to open her heart to shivs love... though she hasnt fallen in love yet but she hopes she might.

d problem in d last episode was with d exact words dat anandi said...ofcourse cvs wanted to show something diff but it came out compeletly different ... dey cud hav made anandi say "mujhe dar he ki kahin mein woh pyar unhe lautapaaungi" dat wud hav showed her fears.. rather the words which she used showed her hopelessness...

i get it d cvs r trying to show that "love happens once" is not true..but exact words shouldnt have been used.

bcoz going by her exact words even if for a moment anandi believes dat she will never be able to love him...den by her ideals she should let him go or atleast try to talk to him rather than blushing at his confessions

yes shiv accepts dat she doesnt love him but is marrying her hoping dat one day she would...

anandi also being mahaan should do the right thing (according to her) by calling off d marriage...

finally all i have 2 say is dat d problem is not wid anandis character but wid d choice of words dat cvs made..

Edited by jack0007 - 08 December 2012 at 6:11pm

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