If ovi has shown some maturity instead of being a psycho then Arjun would have definitely loved her.
He has tried everything but he couldnt develop love for her and the reason for it is not his love for Purvi, but Ovi herself.
Ovi didnt fulfill any duties of a wife except for arranging so called parties which any event manager could have done. The real duty of a wife lies in understanding and supporting a husband and take care of his little things which Ovi has never done.
Jab pyaas lagti hai toh pyaase ko kuwe ke paas jaana padta hai, kuwa pyaase ke paas nahi aata.
This is what Ovi failed to understand. And how will she understand? She has got everything she has even thought of since childhood. Arjun was like a toy or accessory for her which she wanted to buy or deal in any case.
It is called Karma.
jaisi karni waisi bharni.
For all the naari shakti campaign holders,
instead of blaming Arjun that he is dreaming of Purvi, what do you expect? That he should love Ovi without any effort from her.
What exactly did Ovi do that Arjun should love her?
The basic thing is trust. Did she trust him?
No. She chose to trust Punni, whom she doesnt even know properly, just for the mental satisfaction that she is the only one who seem to support her insecurities.
ok, if not trust, then did she make a proper conversation with him? No.
Jab dekho taane maarti rehti hai.
Leave alone a wife or a lover, she couldnt even become a good friend to him..
Men are more sensitive than women, especially in love.
A woman may fall in love with difficulty but she forgets easily and men fall in love easily but it takes a lifetime for them to forget.
Women like Purvi, well less said the better. When they love a guy they'll not remember their family and when they remember their family they'll forget the guy.
So please, think logically and stop the naari shakti morchas on justice to Ovi, justice to Purvi and Blame Arjun. It's Arjun who is facing sort of domestic violence here. Unfortunately we dont have law in our country under domestic violence for men and our mindset is so narrow that we dont sympathize with Arjun just because he is a man.
When a guy slaps a girl people call him an abuser and when a girl slaps a guy people say that definitely the guy only must have done something. That is not true. Take for Arjun slapping Ovi - it was needed. But i'm sure many will raise issues on this too and why? Just because Arjun is a man and Ovi is his wife. If a wife gets pychotic and talks rubbish, degrades her husband's image and another girl's image due to her insecurities and misbehaves in a public place not ready to listen to anyone, doesnt she needs to get slapped? and ovi itni besharam hai ki thappad kha kar bhi chup nahi baithti.. lolzz height of besharminess.
I-F is female dominant site, so my post may not appeal to all, but this for the people with conscience who dont like gender discrimination. (which doesnt just mean women discriminating from men but men discriminating from women too)
Edited by AquaNymph - 06 December 2012 at 11:23am