DOTW: Would You Change for Him/Her?

Post Reply New Post

Next Topic

Prev Topic

beautifuldreams

IF-Dazzler

Joined: 22 May 2009

Posts: 3556

Posted: 05 December 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged

Would You Change For The Person You Love?

I have been asked this question many times so I thought why not have this as the topic of the week so I can get to know what you guys think!

So would you change for the person you love or not?

My answer:

No, because that is lying to yourself and the person you love. It would mean he doesn't know me real me because I am what he wants. Love is not about changing yourself for your other half, rather it's striving to be a BETTER person for the one you love.

<><><>

I would love to know what you guys think so leave a comment below and lets get discussing! :)

The following 5 member(s) liked the above post:

-Amanda-, Alisha_01, -Mystery-, -IamKaShian-, V.I.P,

Dear Guest, Being an unregistered member you are missing out on participating in the lively discussions happening on the topic "DOTW: Would You Change for Him/Her?" in Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships forum. In addition you lose out on the fun interactions with fellow members and other member exclusive features that India-Forums has to offer. Join India's most popular discussion portal on Indian Entertainment. It's FREE and registration is effortless so JOIN NOW!

-Mystery-

Moderator

BollyCurry Buzzers

Joined: 31 August 2007

Posts: 20000

Posted: 05 December 2012 at 6:12pm | IP Logged

It depends on what change we're talking about. If it's a fundamental change that would alter you and your personality then definitely not.

The simple fact is that if someone truly loves the real you, he wouldn't ask you to change. And if he does ask you to change, then he doesn't love you. So why would you change for a person who doesn't love you?

Now if we are talking about some little things... like being a little more organized or living just a little more or doing some crazy things. Then why not? If the change's for the better, then why not?

The following 6 member(s) liked the above post:

-Amanda-, Nikhi., beautifuldreams, Problem_Child, -IamKaShian-, V.I.P,

Alisha_01

Goldie

Joined: 06 September 2008

Posts: 1045

Posted: 09 December 2012 at 9:37am | IP Logged

My answer would be a big No because if he/she truely and really loves us then they should accept how we are if they want us to change they should find a person of there choice not who they can rule on and change.

And everyone has a life of their own and has a free choice will to how they live and what they do so its no one problem or business to tell there partner what to improve on. I know they won't mean it in a bad way but they should understand that everyone is not perfect in the world so they should just ignore it

If my bf said o me to change then I would certainty say no as if he really loves me then h would not look at that 1/2 mistakes I have but should try to improve himself more lolz.

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

beautifuldreams, -IamKaShian-,

V.I.P

IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 23 December 2011

Posts: 24825

Posted: 16 December 2012 at 8:23am | IP Logged

THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

beautifuldreams, -IamKaShian-,

raspberrytorte

IF-Rockerz

Joined: 11 February 2011

Posts: 6059

Posted: 17 December 2012 at 3:26pm | IP Logged

No, because he/she should love you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

You are free to be who you are, just because someone loves you, doesn't mean they can choose who you are and mould you to their own choices.

And also, perfection isn't ideal, imperfection is what makes one unique.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Jugnu_244,

Jugnu_244

IF-Rockerz

Joined: 02 November 2006

Posts: 6929

Posted: 03 January 2013 at 4:12am | IP Logged

My answer is NO if change is good then its okay But if someone truly loves u he'll never want a change in u, he'll love u what you are.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

-IamKaShian-,

-IamKaShian-

IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 08 August 2011

Posts: 16937

Posted: 04 January 2013 at 4:57am | IP Logged

No acutally yes actually i dont know Confused Ouch ROFL ROFL

ok jokes apart i would not change for anyone yes i can change a bit but changing myself completely is wat i cant do. Embarrassed LOL

btw @Mahi-why ur views are like u i mean y they are Always awesome Wink ROFL ROFL

Edited by Magical_KaSh - 04 January 2013 at 4:55am

Page 1 of 1

Post Reply New Post

Go to top

Topics	Topic Starter	Replies	Views	Last Post
DOTW; How do you know your in LOVE :) 2 3 4	beautifuldreams	24	2820	30 December 2011 at 1:34pm By Ali
DOTW:love confessions<3	beautifuldreams	5	406	21 December 2011 at 2:39pm By -Hunter-
DOTW: OPEN UPP :) question timme :D	beautifuldreams	2	330	30 April 2011 at 3:59pm By epiphany.
DOTW: Would You Love A Religous Person? :) 2 3	beautifuldreams	22	1161	14 February 2011 at 2:40pm By vander
DOTW: Age Difference	beautifuldreams	7	402	20 November 2010 at 9:09am By epiphany.

DOTW: Would You Change for Him/Her?

Page 1 of 1

Posted: 05 December 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged

Posted: 05 December 2012 at 6:12pm | IP Logged

Posted: 09 December 2012 at 9:37am | IP Logged

Posted: 16 December 2012 at 8:23am | IP Logged

Posted: 17 December 2012 at 3:26pm | IP Logged

Posted: 03 January 2013 at 4:12am | IP Logged

Posted: 04 January 2013 at 4:57am | IP Logged

Related Topics

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Search

Join India-forums Today!

Here's why members would love to be a part of India-Forums.com:

Join Us Close