Ahh ! Now, that Purvi has left town, who else can be blamed for ALL
of Ovi's issues ??? OfCourse, it has to be Arjun !!! I am NOT
saying he is blameless, but pinning it all on him, really !!
Granted Arjun did it for Purvi, and he should not have listened to her again !! He should not let that girl rule his mind, life so much, but that is a different issue. Now, the baby problem is being blamed on him too ??? Why ??
Why is Ovi bitter about the baby? Arjun gave her the choice of having the baby or not and she chose to have it. Why? Because, her Aaji told her that the baby can bridge the gap between the husband and wife, and will slowly and surely her hubby will forget his love. Granted, she gave the advice as an experienced person who has seen life. She probably is right. And, at that point, it sounded all nice and tempting to Ms.Ovi. So, she went ahead to have the baby. Did she think that the baby would work miracles and transform Arjun's love to her in a few months? He said he would TRY to make the marriage work, and need her cooperation and help. So, where is her cooperation now? She knows that he is excited about the baby and is very concerned about it. So, why does she not act smartly, and use that to her advantage? Why does it have to be about HER again?? She wants him to love her unconditionally, switch over from Purvi in a few months? So, to hurt him, she is hurting the baby? I am sure she knows that drinking harms the baby. Does she not care? Is this the behavior that is being justified today that it is all Arjun's fault and not hers? Irrespective of everything else, if Arjun yells at her not to drink as it harms the baby, he is wrong?
After Arjun said recently that he still loved Purvi before everyone, and then later came back to ask her for a second chance, WHY did she take that up? She pretty well knows that it may not happen. Why did she not refuse that second chance? He may be "2-timing" as some claim, so why does she not leave Arjun for good? Why does she still hanker for his love and now is so bitter about it? Why cant she leave him NOW and go away and live a better life? Why does she want to hang on to a marraige where she is miserable ? Let us assume, it is all Arjun's fault, so who is stopping her from walking out? Why does she have to harm an innocent baby? Does she not care about anyone else other than herself????? isnt a baby part of her? I would really like to know...
Edited by jdronamraju - 05 December 2012 at 1:29pm