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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 12:52am | IP Logged
fantastic take anonee ..I missed you so much in DC , we've not been discussing for sometime Disapprove

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 3:59am | IP Logged
Oh this was a good perspective to look at the prevailing conditions...You guys at DC are too good at such in depth analyses...Thanks a lot for sharing :)

Edited by Frozen007 - 04 December 2012 at 6:37am

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 5:16am | IP Logged
Awesome job in portraying their lies...Yup even Yash has lied for personal reasons.. so he shouldn't feel disappointed and if he hates lies and liars then he should hate himself 

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 5:22am | IP Logged
umm... honestly... I just feel...
Aarti has been trying to tell herself that it's her majboori...
she has known Yash as a person and human.. n especilly after tomorrow, she knows what is her biggest mistake and so she should really speak out the truth to Yash..

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 6:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anonee

The below table outlines the lie-truth-majboori issue as I see it.  Please feel free to disscuss and add your viewpoints!Smile

  

 

Issue

Involvement

Information being withheld to protect family/marriage originated as result of personal choice

Yash

versus

 

Information being withheld to protect initially self and later out of need to protect marriage as a result of personal choice

Pari

versus

 

Information being withheld to protect family/marriage originated as a result of emotional blackmail by the Dupeys in order to protect their image and later circumstances in Scindhiya parivaar (including Yash's emotional issues) were cited by them as additional reasons to scare Aarti from revealing the truth

Aarti

Blackmail was not for money but for "emotional and psychological" control.  Fear, guilt, shame, and obligation are used to manipulate Aarti to do what they want.  They ignore Aarti's feelings, needs and wishes.  They play "victim" (Prashant is dying) and ignore the repercussions that Aarti will face by giving in to their demands.

Aarti

Blackmail is subminimal

Aarti

The Dupeys blackmail is like throwing a pebble into a pond, you never know where the ripples are going to reach.  Every course of action they choose is based on lies that ultimately Aarti will be held responsible for and the ripples have drawn in Ansh and Yash as well.

 

The Dupeys blackmail is also unpredictable ' just when Aarti thinks it is just one BMT sessions ' the number is increased to 3 and she is kept in the dark about when they are to be conducted.  In addition, Prashant is playing his own game and keeping the senior Dupeys and Aarti in the dark about his proposed visit to SM and his meetings with Ansh and Yash.

 

 
Couldn't have worded this any better - loved it through and through! Please keep these wonderful tables coming!

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 6:49am | IP Logged
ooo i love the table Clap
i really feelfor aarti at timesConfused
and yash i love but he needs a reality check.  he lied to her when he went to meet dubeyji as well.  and didn't tell the truth till after he came back.  when it was conveniert for him.  hows that different then aarti waiting till after the bmt to tell the truth.  if you go by his black and white standards then it doesn't matter the time lapse between a spoken lie and admission of it, you're guiltyDisapprove 

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 7:09am | IP Logged
Very clear presentation of reasons and events. thank you 

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Posted: 04 December 2012 at 8:16am | IP Logged
very nice post dear.thanks

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