[/QUOTE] Bhavi no issues with giving Gyan or poking Nose... But Your Husband needs attention. It is right of a husband. his EMA was some wha justified with his wife's behaviour towards him.
In that case Seema should have done EMA- Gaurav never bought any gifts for her, He never took her out... Wanted her dad's money, her dad's support and so on...
As a couple they never communicated their displeasure. He was never shown speaking to Seema regarding his issues. Only once i guess he spoke about it other than that nothing was show.
If he had issues he could have taken her to court and take divorce. But no he wanted a kamwali to do ghar ka kaam. He would spend money on Lolly and never do that on his own wife.
Plus when you live in joint family your personal time go at back burner and when kids grow up than it becomes even worst. This is the story of most of the household. That does not mean every man should go out and find a Lolly for himself.
NOTHING IN LIFE CAN JUSTIFY EMA.
[/QUOTE] I am just saying that this is a common mistake that men make when there is no attention from your wife. I am giving my opinion based on what i saw on the show. Not once but there were many occasions where Gaurav mentioned that your attention is only towards Siddhi & Kunal and you don't care about me. Even Seema have discuss this with Siddhi that she does not give much time to Gaurav. If you blame Gaurav for EMA than Seema is equally responsible for this. For Kaam wali bai... i think she was more of a Kaam wali bai for Sinal rather than Gaurav as gaurav has said to seema you leave it i will do my own work.