Joined: 24 August 2004
...... It's been proven again and again and again that those who are capable of taking sound business decisions with far reaching effects are not so astute when it comes to taking emotional decisions.In fact many mega successful business men and women have their personal life in shambles.Have any idea how many broken affairs Sabir Bhatia has gone through?
Minnie I don't agree with you in the first point...... When in the restaurant Purab and Jassi were discussing, Jassi asked Purab that I want to tell you about my love in my PAST.... And by reading between the lines, purab said I believe you completely...... or some thing like that..... Don't you think saying 'yes' to your above question (If Purab had asked her 'look I know you love Armaan and are you sure you can forget about him in a space of one month flat and be happily married to me' ) is as good as saying I loved somebody in my past?..... I think it is the same... by that PAST, Jassi meant I loved somebody in the past, BUT I AM OVER IT NOW....I DON"T LOVE HIM IN THE PRESENT..... So I guess then you and me both blame Jassi for this, right???
Anyway I agree with your second point that people who take good business decisions are not very good with emotional decisions..... Just like Purab!!!
Joined: 20 May 2004
All good points but Jassi's "love" is based on a massive crush because she does not have a clue about the kind of person the Armaan character is. Remember her telling Armaan that she had only one aim or thought of only one thing before so many things happend to her including "loving Armaan Sir"
Clearly obvious she never had that teenage girlie phase that is full of fascinations and crushes. It's almost like she had a nun-like existence
So yes perhaps Jassi is not to blame but she is doing something incredibly stupid for what she thinks is love. She has taken Purab, who is as close to a soulmate as she will ever have, for granted based on a wrong premise
Joined: 16 June 2004
gosh .... what can i say...u ppl have said it all.........completely agree with you jammy and mystica!!!....
if she can't maintain a relationship its better not to get into one.She is simply hurrying herself into marriage.
Joined: 28 September 2004
No I would never blame Jassi for all this.If Purab had asked her 'look I know you love Armaan and are you sure you can forget about him in a space of one month flat and be happily married to me' and she would have said yes,then I would have blamed her.
It's been proven again and again and again that those who are capable of taking sound business decisions with far reaching effects are not so astute when it comes to taking emotional decisions.In fact many mega successful business men and women have their personal life in shambles.Have any idea how many broken affairs Sabir Bhatia has gone through?
If the girl says yes for marriage no guy would ask the question you said. Its a very simple logic and your question is itself answered by the girl when she initiated the topic!!
If the guy proposes the marraige then the question arises for him to ask for girls permission and clear things out, Here the girl is already saying yes, she wasnt not under any pressure.
In short the situation never arises. to ask your question, If jassi hadnt initiated the topic and only her parents had said yes to purab on her behalf, then it would have been right for purab to ask jassi as to whats in her heart or mind. Also mind you jassi was shown very happy with her decision. It was her true happiness which was showing on face. There was no way purab would have guessed that what she is saying someday she might not be happy with it. So the situation was not as you assumed. Jassi initiated the topic and she said yes!!! She also said in the restuarant about her PAST love!!
Joined: 22 September 2004
Well said Jammy and Mystica…..it is Jassi who initiates and pursues the relationship with Purab….were she not sure of her feelings, she should not have made a decision that influences other lives too….so yes she is to be blamed….
Granted that Purab should have come clean with her at some point with regards to knowing abt her feelings for Armaan, but then so could Jassi……and as Mysti pointed out….for Purab to hope that Jassi might develop feelings for him someday is an essential element of human nature too……he has HOPE…..and many relationships begin with no feelings on either side but this element….especially in our culture…. and these end up turning into love matches for decades…..
Minnie u have an excellent point abt mental coercion…..it is hard to go against the wishes of ur loved ones even if they put no pressure on u……however, if Jassi is marrying Purab to please her parents (as is being implied), then she is at wrong because if she is not honest abt her commitment to Purab, or is still stuck on Armaan, she will hurt her family more with her decision….not to mention Purab, who is then just a PAWN to her……
Also, I think its very demeaning to human beings to say that we r slaves to our feelings alone….and that matters of the heart cannot be influenced by the mind…..it is the heart and mind together that make all decisions, even those regarding love and likeness…..so to say that Jassi made this decision based on her mind alone is completely untrue…..
And last, even if this entire thing is Jassi's big master plan to sacrifice her feelings for her family's happiness, she is to be blamed for using Purab in this game, without his consent…..
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