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Posted: 27 November 2012 at 8:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _Aanchal_

Originally posted by CutielovesChocs

Trust can't be regained by everyone, mind you. 

I'm a total bitch to some people Really? abse tere PMs ignore karne honge Dead. I've shut them out of my life and I have NO regrets either. But then there are a few others I'd probably do anything for like, writing an OS to make them feel better Blushing. We've had out fair share of ups and downs. I've had my flaws and they have had theirs. I've hurt them, they've hurt me. However, it depends on YOU. You need to prioritise. You need to realise what different people mean to you I'll get to this later Broken Heart 

That's what I meant by regaining trust. Because there are certain people with whom I have an amazing bond. I don't think anything can break it. Sure, there are a LOT of tugs but no breakages. We won't let it happen me?? Day Dreaming! *touch wood* Embarrassed-


Oh and main topic ko I'll reply soon Big smile

LOL

Tu mere PMs ignore NAHINNN karegi! LOL

And yes, just like that! Embarrassed

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Posted: 27 November 2012 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
for me dosti is everything some time ago 
i believe that friendship is really important part of life
in life there is no need of lots of friends but only need of a true friend 
that person who share everything with u 
never hide anything from u 
because when u got to know that ur best friend hide this thing from u from other's its hurt a lot ..
nd agar kabhi again us insaan sey dosti ho jaye phir b wo peley wala trust , spark nahi reh jata us dosti mey
dost to hum is liye bnatey hey ta ki hum apni life ki bate share kar sake na ki hurt honey k liye 
kehtey hey dushman utna dard nahi deta jitna kabhi kabhi apka kareebi dost dey deta hey 
u know a few min ago asma di ney sahi bola ki peoples r sweet poison pta hi nahi chalta ki wo kya karney waley hey ...
ab to dosti karney sey b dar lagta hey 
har koi khud k jesa nahi hota ...
sab ki ambitions alag hey 
or scoh b ,,
hum kesey juj kar saktey hey 
ek true friend milna bohat tought hey 
kyu ki agar best friend hi back stabbing krey to baki kya bcha ...
dosti ...beautiful dream but a bad reality for me Cry... leave it 





Edited by aromakriyaansh - 27 November 2012 at 10:11pm

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 3:31am | IP Logged
friendship always needs trust if we have no trust then it is useless to keep that personn as ur friend
nice disscussion
u reminded me of v best friends fore***


Edited by tiara_magic - 01 December 2012 at 3:31am

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 7:05am | IP Logged
Friendship and trust are parallel to each other when u say a gal/guy a friend means u starts trust on him/her for example in a class there re approx 55 -60 stdents but u say all are ur clssmate but only few u all as ur friends   means somewhere in ur hert u start belive on ur friend u want to tlk with him /her u ask ques u give ans means u ques only that whom u trust so I think
FRIENDSHIP_____________________________________________
TRUST     _____________________________________________

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 7:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by CutielovesChocs

Trust can't be regained by everyone, mind you. Oh I agree to that!

I'm a total bitch to some people. I've shut them out of my life and I have NO regrets either. LOL that's the best. When there are no regrets, you know that's the right decision. But then there are a few others I'd probably do anything for. We've had out fair share of ups and downs. I've had my flaws and they have had theirs. I've hurt them, they've hurt me. However, it depends on YOU. You need to prioritise. You need to realise what different people mean to you. Absolutely true again. There can be some people that are worthy of giving trust back. Even then, it can be hard.

That's what I meant by regaining trust. Because there are certain people with whom I have an amazing bond. I don't think anything can break it. Sure, there are a LOT of tugs but no breakages. We won't let it happen! *touch wood* Embarrassed- --Hug

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 7:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Missscarlett

Awesum topic. :) Thanks! 
Friendship for me is quite a complicated thing. I do not make friends easily. Sure i talk to a lot of people but i am extremely extremely careful in letting people close to me and for me trusting someone is very difficult (okay i have trust issues :) ). I understand that. I talk to anyone and everyone as well. But when it comes to sharing the deepest feeling, there are only a handful I would talk to. Trust and respect are the two very foundations of any relationship be it a friendship or a romantic relationship. If their is no trust in the friendship i dont think it can even be termed as friendship. A friend is a person who is supossed to have your back all the time, a person with whom you share all your secerts and innermost thoughts with. If u dont trust a person to share a part of your life with them, then how can they be called your friend? Correct. Without trust, friends can't be made and to make friends, trust is needed. Both of them go very much hand in hand.
For me its either black or white. I dont do grey. I am extremely choosy in making friends but when i do consider someone my friend, i give my 100% to the relationship. If someone breaks my trust sure it would be very very hurtful to me but if the person in question is genuienly sorry i would forgive them. Its very difficult for me to stop caring about someone who i let in my life. I forgive easily and am not a type of person to hold grudges against anybody no matter how badly they have hurt me. So, even if a person would break my trust i would give the friendship a second chance mostly because its impossiable for me to shut out a person who was an important part of my life. I firmly believe in have a few good friends then having a lot of fake friends. I dont have a lot of friends but the ones i have are very very close to my heart. :) The care part- TRUE! There are many who just can't stop caring and that's the painful part. But then, we have to think if they were even worth our care. As there are some people like that in the world. No matter how important a person gets, sometimes the wound they give you is too big to be healed even with time. Such situations, I find it hard to believe that trust can be regained...

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 7:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lizzie_angel

Hey Khushi awesome topic... Well here i go... Thanks Liz!! 

For a person like me who believes that friendship is the most beautiful relationship anyone can gain, trust is really important!! If i have to make friends i will have to trust them!! Trust for me is the basic foundation for any relationship!! Agreed with you as well! 

Friendship is like a chinese cup- costly,rich and rare. I like that comparison! :D Once broken it can't be mended and if it can be mended the crack still remains!!! True. One more comparison i learn of that is other than the rock-water one. Love it! It is easy to make friends but difficult to trust them!! And the past holds the key! Trust should not be misused by anyone!! It can greatly affect the person concerned!! So for me trust and friendship go hand in hand and are highly dependent on each other!! without one of these existence of the other is next to impossible!!! I am friendly to everyone but it takes a lot for me to rust them!!!  Thanks for the view Hug

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Posted: 01 December 2012 at 7:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aromakriyaansh

for me dosti is everything some time ago 
i believe that friendship is really important part of life
in life there is no need of lots of friends but only need of a true friend 
that person who share everything with u 
never hide anything from u 
because when u got to know that ur best friend hide this thing from u from other's its hurt a lot ..
nd agar kabhi again us insaan sey dosti ho jaye phir b wo peley wala trust , spark nahi reh jata us dosti mey
dost to hum is liye bnatey hey ta ki hum apni life ki bate share kar sake na ki hurt honey k liye 
kehtey hey dushman utna dard nahi deta jitna kabhi kabhi apka kareebi dost dey deta hey 
u know a few min ago asma di ney sahi bola ki peoples r sweet poison pta hi nahi chalta ki wo kya karney waley hey ...
ab to dosti karney sey b dar lagta hey 
har koi khud k jesa nahi hota ...
sab ki ambitions alag hey 
or scoh b ,,
hum kesey juj kar saktey hey 
ek true friend milna bohat tought hey 
kyu ki agar best friend hi back stabbing krey to baki kya bcha ...
dosti ...beautiful dream but a bad reality for me Cry... leave it 




I agree... Friends can give you the most memorable moments of life and can also give you the worst pain when you feel like you're back stabbed. I completely get you. I've gone through the same many times in past and it continues to happen till date. Stay strong dear Hug

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