Posted: 26 November 2012 at 7:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by CutielovesChocsReserved for a LAMBAAA sa comment!
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Woah, awesome topic Khushi, for starters! Thank you
And friendship according to me, is the relationship that is the most beautiful of them all. After all, friends are the family we get to choose for ourselves. Isn't it? I value friendship and friends more than anything else. So, quite obviously, trust is an element that is crucial. Trust is always important, be it in any relationship. Correct! A family one can choose and is't already mapped out for them. With them, they can be themselves and it all begins with trust..
It is something that takes ages to build and a second to break. Once broken, it takes ages once more, to build it. But you're right. It's not the same; it never will be. I'm a person who doesn't forgive easily. And that's my defense mechanism against being hurt. Once someone breaks my trust, it's very hard for me to accept the person for what they used to be. Yeah, they might not have meant it and yeah, it might have been a mistake but it takes extremely long for someone to realise that. And even when they have, it isn't easy to wipe off the memories of the times when you felt that acute stab of pain. You trusted someone and they didn't maintain it like they should have. Agreed. Once you're hurt, you're hurt. I know I'm the kind of person who never forgives, let alone taking time to forgive. I've had some people in my choti si life till now that I haven't forgiven and I have no regrets for it. For me, it's like you break my trust, you can go to dot dot dot I have better people in life Like I believe, better remember whom you're friends with before you decide to make them your enemy
People choose their friends for various reasons; loneliness, compatibility, to chill out, to name a few. I've always gone by the quote: 'People are there in your life for a reason, season or a lifetime'. And that's what I choose to believe. Some people, no matter how close they are, decide to enter your life, serve their purpose and walk out. Others, choose to stay for quite some time, ensuring that their time and reason in your life has been served. And there are only a few chosen ones, who stay for a lifetime. And yes the people in the last category may screw you up. How much I believe that quote myself! Those who walk out were never meant to be in the first place. Even some stay for lifetime and can screw you up, like you said, but at times, that's how you like it, right?
It's really up to you. Whether you decide to give chances, no matter how bleak the situation might seem. No matter how broken you are. Trust is something that CAN be regained, although it might take a while. But you need to make an exception for those special ones who make your life worthwhile, who make you feel as if everything will be okay. Can be regained? I'd disagree due to my own personal experiences. Maybe I cover up after my trust is broken and my I go cold hearted towards the person and refuse to listen to anything and anyone. Maybe that's why. But I never build trust back once it's broken. What's the guarantee it won't be broken again?
Kahaan se kahaan pohonch gai main!?
HAHA! Look what you made me turn into so early in the morning! A philosopher