Posted: 25 November 2012 at 9:58am | IP Logged
The member with the actor name Varun Badola mentioned about whether we would pay his bills due to problems with the show in this thread:
When someone offers to help we expect them to say thank you, or no thank you. We do NOT expect them to give verbal attacks and to make them feel insulted.
I was only offering to ease the burden. I did not insult him. He insulted and attacked me and others for our views. I said that if we all paid then he would have enough to solve the issue. I offered to help but, I was told to shut up, and later the thread was closed. It is wrong to say it is an insult to offer help, after requesting it.
If he went to a financial consultant, he would have to pay costs for this sort of advice that I had given him. We all respected Mr Badola and wanted him to direct his own shows & be successful. However, I am really disgusted with the responses he gave & personal attacks.
It is abnormal for actors to come & abuse members of the public online in a public forum (esp. after all the flattery they have received from them, so many times) or to take public views so negatively that it is affecting their personal lives & then to blame others for it, yet still refuse to read or understand the comments & the good intentions behind them.
It is totally abnormal to request an issue needing assistance (rudely asking us whether we would pay all their bills) and then return it with abuse to anyone offering their sincere help.
A public apology is owed not only to myself but to all members.
Edited by Istila - 25 November 2012 at 11:22am