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jprasad
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actually dat girl donot hav any morals ,she simply slept wid two guys for money n pleasure so definately a good boy donot deserve such an immoral girl.
She surely cannot be called a gold digger,but its true that she didnt really take her relationship seriously(as if she was so damned serious,and if money was the only impeding factor,she could have spoken with her parents and tried to convince them...orelse she must have give it a thought before consummating)..
and please can we stop glorifying the girl by digressing and saying that maybe even the guy might not be a virgin
..I mean,we surely arent talking about a man's double standards here...we're debating as to whether its right or wrong to lie about virginity
and the guy IS a virgin
The guy in question is a virgin. So he asked her if she was and she told him yes. Also he is good looking and well educated. I believe she is lying because she knows he will not agree to marry her if she tells him of her past. She is on the heavier side and not good looking as such. But her parents are rich and so are his. And this is kind of an arranged marriage where the parents fixed them up. I told her what she would do, if he finds out after marriage about her past bf's. And she says, he will not find out. I think since he is a virgin, he has complete right to expect a virgin spouse. I believe having sexual relations with someone for 4 years if like being married to someone for 4 years. Then its disgusting to lie to someone that you area a virginOriginally posted by sonali_k
from what I hear,the boy happens to be an innocent chap,who is being cheated....thus I feel sorry for him
jprasad
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I think she knows her friend better than anyone of us do.....
and i dont think anyone of us would want to be betrayed and cheated....None of us would want our brothers/sisters/daughters/sons to be cheated into believing something which is false....what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gancer
It happened with my mamu too...he was betrothed to a girl ...and later,before the engagement,came to know that the girl was of loose morals(and this again is very subjective)...and my grandparents broke the engagement because they didnt want a girl like her....now whether they were right or wrong is not the question as Its very subjective ...But if the boy in question happens to hail from a similar background,the parents wouldnt want a non-virgin as their DIL as if people come to know about the girl's behaviour,it would become good fodder for the gossipmongers.....and we must not forget,we still live in a society where such things arent really accepted(atleast in the conservative indian society)
She may suffer from confidence issues and that is why she sleeps around. In that case your mammu shouldn't want to marry her cuz God knows she will nag him cuz she ain't a happy person...sleeping around and all.
Aparna_BD
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actually dat girl donot hav any morals ,she simply slept wid two guys
for money n pleasure so definately a good boy donot deserve such an
immoral girl.She surely cannot be called a gold digger,but its true that she didnt really take her relationship seriously(as if she was so damned serious,and if money was the only impeding factor,she could have spoken with her parents and tried to convince them...orelse she must have give it a thought before consummating)..
and please can we stop glorifying the girl by digressing and saying that maybe even the guy might not be a virgin..I mean,we surely arent talking about a man's double standards here...we're debating as to whether its right or wrong to lie about virginity
and the guy IS a virgin
The guy in question is a virgin. So he asked her if she was and she told him yes. Also he is good looking and well educated. I believe she is lying because she knows he will not agree to marry her if she tells him of her past. She
is on the heavier side and not good looking as such. But her parents
are rich and so are his. And this is kind of an arranged marriage where
the parents fixed them up. I told her what she would do, if he finds
out after marriage about her past bf's. And she says, he will not find
out. I think since he is a virgin, he has complete right to expect a
virgin spouse. I believe having sexual
relations with someone for 4 years if like being married to someone for
4 years. Then its disgusting to lie to someone that you area a virginOriginally posted by sonali_k
from what I hear,the boy happens to be an innocent chap,who is being cheated....thus I feel sorry for him
Expect you to turn this serious debate into something so comical yaar.
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sowmyaa
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man...JP as aparna said, you definetly are riot..
MNMS
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.... GUESS WHT! This serious hotshot debate is turning out to be a laughter campaign!!!!!
jprasad
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what is wrong with you guys...i am trying to save a guy whom I don't know from a sex crazed girl. I am trying to save the girl whom I still don't know from a guy who could potentially be impotent and you guys are making fun of me??? 
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