Lying about virginity (Page 18)

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Marriage is an important part of human life.It is not a game.IT is a lifetime commitment.So both husband and wife should respect each-other and must share every sorrow-happiness with his partner. We must remember truth can not be hidden.It will come infront someday.

YES, on the whole basis of virginity the arguments that its just a piece of tissue and that there's no need for a man to prove his virginity HOLDS grounds.

BUT, THE question being whether a girl SHOULD LIE about her virginity, I say a huge and balant NO.

The issue I see here is one of lack of intimacy in a relationship. You are bound to be honest to your future husband. He deserves it. IF the couple are committed and honestly love each other I see nothing whatsoever against pre marital sex.

The husband is the one with whome you will share your future life, bear children-so YES you need to be honest. If its ok with him then its fine. if its not, then its HIS problem. Opinion may differ from person to person-but its your future life that depends. If you start your marraige with dishonesty-WHAT talk about future bliss?