Originally posted by annymous
do you know why people arent critisizing her, because it is not like she decided not to tell him, cant you see the guilt on her face everytime, she wants to tell him but yet she doesnt want to hurt the dubeys at the same time, it is not like she is having a good time, she has been worried since that time so how can you call her selfish then, and the reasons why people are angry with the dubeys is because they are making her feel worse, obviously that is not a good reason not to tell yash, i personally think she should still have, but you cant call her selfish and hate her because of that
That doesn't excuse her not telling! and she doesn't want to hurt dubeys, but she can lie to yash even after she knows how disgusted he is with lies? even after he told her he does not want anys ecrets between them?
I totally agree about aarti with saffie (ilovepyar). feeling guilty is not enough! what majoori is she talking about? i can't see what majboori she has ! sure the dubeys emotionally blackmailed her and she is scared, but doesn't she know Yash much better than the Dubeys? doesn't she know that he will never refuse to save someone's life? isn't this the same Yash who almost gave up his life for Ansh when he had known ansh for just 1 mnth or even less? isn't this the same Yash who was ready to die for a stranger- Neelam? Why did aarti even say "shayad yash ji maan jayenge"...why can't she still trust him? and yet she says :mujhe aap pe khud se zyaada vishwaas hai!". aarti's self thoughts and her actions are contradictory to each other! For God's sake, there is no majboori! Why does she still have to fall into the Dubeys' blackmailing trap? why can't she for once listen to what her heart says and do the right thing, that is , tell Yash the truth?
Even Yash was emotionally blackmailed by his parents during the divorce phase, he didn't disrespect them, but neither did he do what he didn't want to. He knew his parents did not want aarti in the house, but he brought her back! He went against his dad and gave money for ansh's ransom! why can't aarti go against shobha and tell Yash the truth? or does she not trust him enough that he will agree to gv permission for ansh's BMT? sure he will be angry with aarti, but doesn't aarti know that Yash is that sort of a man who will place someone else's life over his anger? he might not talk to her, but he would definitely not stop ansh from donating bone marrow to Prashant! so what is arti's majboori? For God's sake, just accept aarti that u r scared to tell the truth, and stop giving excuses like majboori! I would sympathize with aarti if she said "I am scared that yash ji will start hating me", instead of turning this whole thing into a sacrifice and majboori!
as far as Dubeys are concerned though, I have to disagree with Saffie. They r manipulators to the core. They r most welcome to save their son's life, but what shobha did was the ugliest form of emotional blackmail, and that can't be forgiven. I am more disappointed in shobha, becoz she was the one who preached about morality! Where is her morality now? she can definitely request aarti for ansh's bone marrow, but to emotonally blackmail her deliberately? cheap.very very cheap...esp when she knows how influenced aarti is by her!
Edited by DMKJ_VB - 17 November 2012 at 2:01am