Posted: 16 November 2012 at 3:39pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by jikky_84
She had all these months and
she could have told and I agree that was her mistake. Like you said if
she is hiding things from her husband, then what kind of a wife she is?,
then the parents who are not bothered about their daughter's health
and unborn child or her marriage and putting her in all the pressure,
what kind of parents are they? So are they even true to the word that
they consider Arati as their own child. You just can't switch between
daughter and daughter in law according to your need.
are putting Arati through all these and asking her to lie to Yash more
and more, and what if she end up loosing her child? What if Scindiya's
abandon her because the whole PV was based on a lie? What if Yash also
is angry with her? What if she looses this second chance that Dubey's
gave to her is lost and she is back to square one with Ansh? Can they
give her back all these thing? or will they want Arati to be back as
Prashant's wife like Dubey has many time hinted, if Yash leaves her she
can come back to Prashant. Is she some kind of a doll whom you can throw
of when you don't need and take back when you need?
am not saying that Arati is right in hiding everything to Yash but
Dubey's are equally wrong here. Aren't they the ones who started the
divorce lie but did they ever thought of meeting Yash and clearing him
up that it was them who started the lie and they forced Arati to remain
They always asked Arati to face
everything even when they have started that. I would have appreciated if
they directly went to Yash and confessed everything what they did from
the beginning or even tried to do that. But they always chose the easy
way out and not the right one.
do think that the Dubey's consider her their daughter because if they
hadn't then they wouldn't have disowned Prashant in the first place.
However, the child who is in need of them more right now is Prashant.
He's in his last stage of cancer! Right now Aarti's child is inferior to
Prashant's health for them.
In my opinion, I don't think that they would mind if Aarti tells Yash everything after the bone marrow transfer, because Prashant would already have been safe by then. For them, they can't see beyond their son's health. The Dubey's are under the impression that if Aarti doesn't tell Yash now, then he and the family will never find out the truth so she won't have to go through with all of that. Even if they do find out, they still would think their son is in more need than Aarti. If roles were reversed between Aarti and Prashant, and Aarti was the one at the hospital, then I'm sure they would be desperate for Aarti's life as well.
If the scenario you gave were to happen (losing her baby, broken marriage, disowned by Scindhia's), then I would still blame Aarti more than the Dubey's. Aarti's a grown woman, and she should have told all this to Yash long ago.
I have a feeling that when the truth will unfold in front of Yash and he's under all sorts of misunderstandings, it will be the Dubey's who clear it. So let's see if they clear it up with Yash when he finds out. We can't make that assumption that they wouldn't tell him yet, because he doesn't know the truth yet.
The whole divorcee lie was a big lie, and I agree that they chose the easy way out by hiding it. However, right now, they're not taking the easy way out on anything. It's really hard to see their son in such a critical stage and time is also limited. If they tell Yash, they might be afraid that he'll say no out of anger and then when he comes to his senses, it'll be too late. Or they're scared that he'll downright refuse. Right now, they want to take as few risks as possible, even if it means taking Ansh's marrow in an unethical manner.