those who sacrifices their own happiness for others are not selfish.
Purvi wanted to see her mother happy. If Purvi married Arjun without listening to Ovi's deal and truth about Savita's trick didn't get revealed then everyone will say Purvi is selfish. she didn't utilise the chance to show her roylaity in uniting her mother with her family.
Now Archu got her family with the truth coming in front of everyone. So blaming Purvi for insulting Arjun's love is easy.
Arjun also decided to marry Ovi to give happiness to Purvi. Still now he is trying to keep Ovi for the happiness of Purvi and other family members.
Internally Purvi and Arjun are same. they wanted to see others happy face. They are not selfish.
If Ovi didn't go to Purvi with that deal then i'll call her selfless. but she used Purvi's weakness as her strength. Ovi placed a deal in front of Purvi to achcieve something for herself. If the truth didn't come out so early i don't think Ovi would have played any role in accepting Archu as her mother. She might have told to others with her mouth and pushed the blame on Savita, Teju and Sachin for not accepting archu into family. Just because the truth came out so early Ovi is safe and everyone thinks she is not selfish.
Real love understands others heart. Till now Ovi never showed any interest in understanding Arjun's heart. Even she made a deal with Purvi, Ovi didn't think what will be Arjun's reaction. She should know how difficult to forget for those two people who loved so much. She wants that to happen in a second. She was not able to accept Arjun didn't love her. but she wants Purvi to forget Arjun so easily.
Arjun and Purvi are trying to forget each other. that doesn't mean they should look at each other like enemies. they still can stay as friends. but Ovi wants Purvi to go out of the family. Did she ever thought about Purvi's future.
Arjun and Purvi are thinking about Ovi's future. but Ovi thinks about her own future. Ovi is the selfish person. Arjun and Purvi are not selfish.
Purvi and Arjun are victims of Ovi's selfish
Edited by newt2007 - 18 November 2012 at 10:44pm