Originally posted by ayeshi_101
@ JAM n Uma aunty... Its nothing wrong to be professional n dont want to start a family if u r so much dedicated to ur career...!!! But when u r in a relationship with someone you should clarify the fact that what you want from beginning..!!! So that u dont give any wrong hope to someone n dont waste his/her time...!!! Uma aunty I am not blaming ur relative cause she gives priority to her carrer much... If she knew how important it is to her husband to have a kid, she should have told him b4 that dont expect anything from me...!! The divorce which is happenning now should have happened then or the husband would sacrifice n forget about kid for her sake...!!! Giving someone false hope is not fair...!!!
Ayeshi beta that is exactly what I have said in my thread that many girls in the garb of professional life can ruin the life of another man. So you should not see women as only an exploited class men also in such cases suffer. We all blame my cousin because what she did was wrong. That was my point. The other side of the coin. If wives become obsessed about their career than also problems come up. To have a career is ok as women need to be financially independent. However they should know how to balance the two.