JAM you have made a very nice post and frankly I consider you as brave to make such a debatable and complicated topic. There are so many different ways of looking at this and I understand that you have made your topic based on majority of men from Male-dominated society.
I am surrounded by men a lot like Suraj so my way of looking at men differs because I find women are now getting more aggressive and demanding and self-centered. I am talking about the independent women of modern world.
Also the women historically have been enemies of women... if women were more supporting of other women there would be more peace and harmony.
Sorry for deviating from your topic but I just wanted to share my opinion and please did not mean to offend or hurt anybody's sentiments.
Also JAM I have another thought if Sandhya was some other girl who continued to stay in the house but was rebellious or sneaky and self-centered... Would Suraj have been the same man? How would he have responded to regular fights in the house? Surely as is his personality he would remain the same but would have been miserable and his frustrations would come out in some form.
The same goes with women they are frustrated with the situation and learn to adapt with the bad situation by accepting the fate and changing their thinking. This is exactly what Sandhya is doing now except it is another woman Bhabho who is making her do it and not her husband Suraj...
Edited by Juna04 - 15 November 2012 at 7:48am