Originally posted by June_Anne_Marythanks a lot for the wonderful reply sejal di. whatever you said are extremely valid and and endless topic. Most men, I've seen from my practical experience (from the doctors with whom I worked and from what I learn from patients) are only interested in somehow completing something... They want only their safety. They are concerned only about themselves. How sad it is? Most men never consider women as humans. Sometimes I have felt to run away from OPDs. Such pathetic stories you will have to hear.
most of us are the ladies or girls of this era, women who knows her value. Sandy is the representation of all such young, aspiring girls of our nation. But how many of our men can be represented by Sooraj? You can count them with your fingers.
you've really raised a strong point that Sooraj would have been the same if he were married to some other girl... All that a girl wants is a little love, consideration and understanding. But if you see behaviour of some men, you will really feel to fell their 32. Also I dont forget the fact there are some men who are like Sooraj. Who knows to respect, understand and support his wife.. But unfortunately very less in number... The reason for increasing divorce cases there days is only because women started realising what she need. Not because men have changed. As an exception, there are some women who really can be adressed as chudails. Lets forget them.
one thing I learnt while writing this post is what can be the main reason behind Bhabho becoming what she is now. If Baabasa were like Sooraj, things would have been different...
jam tu phir say sejal say talking kar rahi thi u made me sejal yet again .
sejal where are u we need to change names jam humay pagal kar deegi
i agree with bold bhabasa is ur 2nd category men
good at heart but otherwise good for nothing