Posted: 14 November 2012 at 8:09am | IP Logged
Very Well written and analysed Post JAM...
I will discuss your post using your quotes here...
. I'm frustrated with the current track. I'm very happy that my Sunny boy is realising true colours of his beloved Bhabho whom he has been serving like an obedient servant. What makes me more glad is my boy is determined to get his wish complete.
Agree with this change in Suraj and glad that he is determined with this new responsibility too.
Is it a lack of understanding between Surya or is she interested only in pleasing Bhabho and her hypothetical family?
The basic thing of every relation, trust, is not there in her. She believes Bhabho more than her husband when she knows he will cross any sea for her. How sad, so bad...
I have a major problem with the way Sandhya's character has been portrayed too. She seems very caring and thoughtful but in the IPS sort of way not in the wifey sort of way with Suraj and I have a major issue with her giving more priority to Bhabho and her ideologies which is okay if she had first had a talk to Suraj about it.
Her husband who has always been supporting her in everything is fighting with his own mother and siblings for his wife and she is not even bothered to console him. If Sooraj were in her position, he would have run to heal her.
The point in not talking to her husband is beyond explanations. Which wife on earth could do that? That too when your husband is being hurt by all for the reason he is supporting you. Normally no wife could do it. But as Bhabho told, Sandy is special.
This is something I have mentioned repeatedly in many of my posts. I cannot accept the way they are portraying Sandya actually it has not changed much from the past. We thought when they were showing us all those SurYa moments Sandy would change but her character has regressed back to what she was before their declaration of love.
Is this how they want to portray Sandhya's character - because she is an IPS material she cannot be a loving companion a soulmate to Suraj????
Now I really have no wonder why Bhabho is against Sandy's dreams.
. She must be thinking if this is the situation when her beendini is unemployed, once she gets the job of her dreams Sooraj will have to sit in a corner killing mosquitoes.
If Sandhya is going to be this way I will not blame Bhabho in her thinking as any mother would want their dil to put her husband before everything else. However having said that Bhabho is too possessive of her Son Suraj and would only be too happy if Suraj gives his mom more priority and goes against his wife...
What was the need to go and talk with Bhabho yesterday? That too asking her to find solution to all problems
Agreed Sandhya should first talk to her husband and try to understand him and his actions and help and support him as he is only trying to do what he thinks is the right thing to do. She is intelligent and can help him find solutions instead of asking Bhabho to look for solutions with her limitations...
JAM you have made some very valid points and frankly we are all frustrated at the portrayal of Sandhya in this show.