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Posted: 19 November 2012 at 6:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by swaron502

Originally posted by Nishi.Singh

Originally posted by abc123chiti

guys i need some urgent help...
it's my debate n don't have many points to argue...

i want some points...plz help me...

the topic is 'peer pressure is more beneficial than harmful'
n i m going against it...


 
mujhe topic hi nahi samjh aaya TongueLOL
consult some essay writers like Koyel LOL

i ll give u points:

-> definition of PP from nt
-> the start like this...

Peer Pressure is when... (definition) Very commonly known, it had very dangerous outcomes.. it also leads to suicides and insecurity! when ppl arent able to adjust to their surroundings and can't find any friends, etc . the bud of insecurity develops... this bud eventually grows into the plant of peer pressure which is known to have dash dash outcomes LOL 

One can agree on the fat that it leads to some kind of improvement, like, the person develops or works over his/her weak places in which maybe his surrounding pl specialize in, but the most essential fact of peer pressure canno be denied ... that more than improvement it causes insecurity !!...


see this is basic peer pressure.. ispe based bol lio kuch bhi !! Tongue varna full proog high fi english chahitoh consult koyel or tanzie LOL

eee...u r awesome...love u...muaaah...Big smile agar isse zyada hi fi english boli toh unhe shak ho jayega...LOLLOL but will still consult dem...Smile

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Joe, a boy like any other. There's nothing extraordinary or different about him or his life. He has a family, he has friends. He is a part of the society all of us also are. His thinking, behavior, tastes of food, fashion and music and the decisions he takes in life are greatly influenced by those of people around him. 'What people think' is the most influential factor in the choices he makes. What matters most to him is the people around, some directly related to him, others not. But for whatsoever reason, their opinions matter. He can never think of what only he wants. His decisions are almost always influenced by what people think of him. These people may not have anything to do with him, but for some reason their opinions matter. He thinks they are important. They are his peers, they make the group he is a part of. He claims he can think independently, but somewhere he knows he can't. He thinks peer pressure does not affect him, but somewhere he knows it's a delusion. Joe is neither happy nor sad, he is confused. 

Joe's story applies to you, me and everyone around. In each of us, there is a Joe. We get influenced by our peers. Their opinions and choices affect us. We want to be independent but we cannot get rid of the group we are part of. We cannot free ourselves from our peers or their opinions and we can't do away with their pressure. It affects us all the time, directly or indirectly. Very few have the courage to resist peer pressure and be their own selves rather than being one among the lot. Very few have the courage to follow their heart and not the herd. Peer pressure does affect us, both positively and negatively. The difference between positive and negative peer pressure is that the former pushes us to do something good or restrains us from doing bad while the latter pulls us away from the good or pushes us to do the bad; and all this for the sake of peers, just because the crowd thinks it's the coolest thing to do. It's not unnatural for peer behavior to affect us, but following your peers blindly is not a wise thing to do. Let's see how peer pressure affects us.

Negative Effects

Decisions Go Wrong: When you do not like a particular idea or when you have no inclination towards a particular field, it is obvious that you won't like to go by it. For sure, you won't like to go that way. But it is your peer group, which may compel you on doing something you dislike. It's obvious that you won't be happy doing what you do. And you won't succeed. Succumbing to peer pressure in taking important decisions of your life can only land you in sorrow. For example, taking up a field or choosing a career just because your friends did so; without much thought to where your interest lies, can only make you unhappy.

Bad Habits are Cultivated: Peer pressure forces you to do things you are not comfortable doing. It can even lead you to adopt a certain kind of lifestyle, even if you don't really want to. You may not like partying every weekend, you may not be smoking. But peer pressure is powerful. It can turn you from an always-at-home boy/girl to a complete party animal. It can turn you from a total non-smoker to a chain-smoker. There are so many teenagers who take to drinking against their will, just because their peers force them to. In many cases, peer pressure has been the culprit in creating drug addicts. At that vulnerable age, teenagers do not understand that they are actually ruining their life by giving in to pressure from peers.

Identity is Lost: Peer pressure can lead to loss of individuality. Extreme peer pressure may lead you to follow what your peers feel right. Their pressure may compel you to go by everything they think is right. You follow them blindly; you adopt their tastes of fashion, clothing, hair, music and living at large. Peer pressure can actually lead you to lose your own taste. You feel forced to like what they like and do what they do. Peer pressure is the tendency to join the bandwagon; you lose your originality of thought and conduct. You forget the way you wanted to live. You lose your identity.

Read more at Buzzle: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/negative-and-positive-effects-of-peer-pressure.html

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Originally posted by abc123chiti


LOL yr debate karna toh aata hai par jab points hi na toh toh kya khaak debate karungi...LOLLOL

are bina point pe bhi yanha debate ho jate hai... seriously tu IF ka naam duba rahi hai.. LOL

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@nishi- oh she is koyel...i read her FF on abhiya...n gosh...i didn't understand half of it...LOL aisi english toh meri english teacher ke bhi palle na padde...LOL ROFL

@ritzi- thnx...hope for da same...have already taken his help...

@prish- thnx for da link...Big smile

@ash- it's awesome...mera bas chahe toh main yehi utha ke bol dun...not a bad idea btw...Big smile

u guys r so good...luv u guys so much... :')

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