You are absolutely right.
In the environment they live in all thakurians as a general norm will have an in-built prejudice against Bednis (and to be fair vice versa).
In the case of this family the hate is very real because:
- what has happended to Jiji (Adi's Mum)
- that Adi lied to MT's face about Sugni's background (and it was not lie by omission but a blatant outright lie whatever the reason)
- that G lied to MT's face about her relationship with Sugni infront of Adi and Sugni
- that MT knows that TVS's heartache, anguish, anger since her arrival is because Sugni (she was the first one to say to TVS when he was trying convince her to let Adini stay in the house after marriage - what happedne to you - what happened to your heartache, anguish, anger)
- in their eyes because of Sugni Adi has turned against his own family; and
- in their eyes Sugni has trapped Adi into a marriage to become a thakurian.
This is going to get worse for Sugni because if you saw the pre-cap G comes with Karva chotha things and MT insults her. G smart-mouths MT and says "yes a mother gives sanskar to her child. You cannot respect another woman is it any wonder your son does not"
1. G should not go to havali without first checking with Sugni and Adi if that is OK as she knows that the wedding was not acceptable to the family and there is likely to be tension
2. No one goes to a daughter's sasural and because they are insulted, insults them back in their home (most parents would know that it is their daughter who will suffer so will not say anything)
3. How dare G say TVS does not respect women when he had shown nothing but respect to Sugni
4. If she says MT's sanskar means her son does not respect women then Adi is her grandson and Jiji (her daughter's) son but he respects women? why because he married Sugni went against the family?
5. G is proud of how Sugni has turned out but she also bought her 2 brothers up who respect/value nothing and no one except money. So is she in a position to cast stones?
6. If Adi stands by and does not defend his family but supports G by keeping slient or defending her then that will further enforce their hatred of Sugni.
Edited by payal7 - 13 November 2012 at 7:31am