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Sandhya should lend a hand in convincing Bhabo :-) (Page 3)

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Posted: 12 November 2012 at 7:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by UMDU

Very nice lyrics and a  wonderful post. The problem in India is parents continue to support their children right into the 20s unlike the west  where  they are allowed to work and earn their pocket money and many times finance their under graduate studies. In India most children depend on their parents for financial support till they get employed and children are not allowed to work as the concept of dignity of labour does not exist in this sub continent. Nobody in India from a middle class back ground will allow their children to wash dishes in a hotel or become a cashier at a mall while studying. They will always say beta padhne ki umar hai padho ,paise ki chinta mat karo hum dekh lenge. Since they are financing the education the parents feel they have a right to decide what the child should become. Had you allowed the child financial independence he would be able to assert himself. Here the child carries the moral burden that his parents are doing so much for him that he should not hurt them.
             In DABH context Sandy's silence is only due to her love for Suraj. Forget Sandhya nobody can lend a hand in  convincing  Bhabo. She is beyond reason.. As far as  Suraj is concerned he is  the bread winner. However he loves his mother blindly and is afraid to hurt her as she has seen difficult days in the past. He wants to always keep her happy. If he openly revolts she may do bhook hadtal to pressurise Suraj as a last resort. So he is trying to put forward his case gently so that she does not resort to extreme dramas to prove her point. However from the precap it is clear she does not bend so the secret night college idea. Yes a heart to heart talk between Suraj and Sandhya will help.  In India things whether in urban or rural areas are not likely to change unless you allow your children to gain financial independence at an earlier age and the parents become enlightened enough to  allow their children to opt for not so safe subjects and take a risk.


Very nice points Uma Ji. I really loved the way you put forward the real scenario here in India and everything you said happens in most of the families here.
Lets see what the CVs have kept in store for us, but Bhabo not knowing about college would spoil the relation between SurYa and Bhabo in future, I guess. Ouch

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Posted: 12 November 2012 at 7:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ayeshi_101

Saibal...!!! Linking Park..!!!!!!!!!!!! Day Dreaming
One of my fav song...!!! Right song for Sandy's situation...!!! But for now I am just enjoying the song...!!! Wink
Thanks 4 the song dear...!!!!Hug


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I am glad that you are enjoying the song. Embarrassed Embarrassed

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Posted: 12 November 2012 at 7:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by b2011

Nice lyrics Saibal.
 
I hope SurYa try to convince Bhabho but guess the precap does not allow them to do.


Thanks for the appreciation Bharathi Di.  Big smile
Yep, from Precap, I think Bhabo won't allow them at any cost and they will have to carry out their future plans secretively. Big smile

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Posted: 12 November 2012 at 7:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by farhana874

Saibal...A hand only!Shocked
The full Sandy should be there to march into ''Mission Bhabo ko manao!''LOL
Bhabo na maaney phir bhi aage badte jao!Approve
Come on jawan...Alpha bravo charlie...

''Kandhon se milte hain kandhe, qadmon se qadam milte hain
Hum chalte hain jab aise toh dil dushman ke hilte hain'' Approve

Sorry for being funny in this serious post!Embarrassed
Beautifully written Bhai, That song is so apt for your Sandy!





LOL LOL LOL Nice inspiration for Sandy, wish she could see this and run to convince Bhabo. LOL

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Don't say sorry, I loved this funny take. Smile

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Posted: 12 November 2012 at 7:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by udnis

good noteful post...and while reading it helps me to knw more...

sandhya position suits the song very well...

loved the song and its description...

ur take on future episode is good and expecting that...


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I am glad you loved the song and post Embarrassed Embarrassed
Keeping my fingers crossed for future episodes. Embarrassed Embarrassed

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